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Hey Yoyo,

Just wanted to say Hi, thinking about ya
Husband

I agree, I think they feel like they have won (in my h's ow's case) and also that they are rescuing the spouse from the evil one...we are all evil incarnate, don't forget.

Infidelity, from what I understand, by definition is "evil".

BoB

but didn't you know, bobelina, that its the lbs who is at fault for the affair?

can't just be me, can it?

This is fact in my case as well. OW has actually said to her H "You don't know how bad he has it. LWB is horrible....."

Yep, that's me.

Hi playhouse pals.....

Yeah, I guess that would be true, as us LBS's are really at fault. We've been so rotten. We're just a bunch of whiney schmucks. LOL.

BoB

Hi Everyone,
I haven't had much time to get on. Busy, busy!

I see we all have basically the same views on the topic I presented to you yesterday about the OP have no conscience. Basically, the OP is worthless! HA!

Yes, it would have been so nice to run her over, but who wants to damage their car for something so unworthy! Just kidding, I'm not a violent person, although this betrayal can sure put revengeful thoughts in your head! It's just that we are so much more above their immoral selves!

I'm thinking of you all and hope everyone has a better day.

Time for an update. Last night DD had an out of town game to cheer at. She has to ride the bus there, but likes for us to come so she can ride home with us instead of the bus.

H and I made plans to ride together but he had to go over there early for a job he's working on. So I decided I would ride with some friends and meet him there, and DD and I would ride home with him.

The friends wanted to go eat dinner before we went to the game so I called and asked if he wanted to meet us and he said yes. We were on the way to the game and he called and said that he had a work emergency at home and would have to head back there and wanted to see if DD and I could ride back with the people I came with. He said I'm sorry, this can't be helped. I said I know.

About 15 minutes he called back and said that he was turning around and going back to the game because the emergency had been taken care of. He asked where we were. He said he would pull over so I could get in the car with him.

Once we got to the game we sat with one of his friends and some of my friends. These friends know what has been going on so I just wonder what they are thinking everytime they see us together.

When we were leaving the superintendent came up to my H and said Well, I haven't seen you at a basketball game in a long time. Last year H would show up just long enough to watch DD dance and then leave, so it is a major thing that H is coming to the games.

On the way home we passed a store that in the past we always stopped at on the way to the lake that we camp at. DD said "Oh, that makes me sad to see the store we stopped at when we used to go to the lake." I hope it made H think.

Yoyo,

Glad to see he makes an effort to be with you. That is as it should be. Of course.

Sara is right, he is making an effort.

And yay for your daughter! I love when they say spontaneous things that might help open their eyes!!