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Yoyo, sorry such an ugly sight had to put a damper on your day...



Odd you mentioned this. OW always seems calm and collected when I am around her and I mentioned this to OW's H last week. He said "Well, that's not how she is feeling, she usually cries after she sees you, feels so bad that she hurt you...". Excuse me if I don't hand her a tissue....

Think about it.

Our own spouses will try to rationalize their betrayal, and often outright hatred, of someone they vowed before God to love, honor and cherish till death.

So, is it any wonder that the OP can rationalize their own transgressions against us, the LBS?

I'm surprised she didn't look away or look down because she knows she tried and failed to steal your husband. If you caught her leaving the office with a computer, would she look you in the eye?

I guess they don't have the same ethics as we do. I guess it's war for them. They take the official spouses to be in a pedestal too. Why else would someone be comfortable to run for a established second position? For them I guess it's just watching a Royal parade.

Sorry, but this just got me laughing!

I think that many think they are "rescuing" our poor spouses. Plus their ego is so big once they steal someone else's spouse.

I would not have only run her over but I would have reversed back over and then on again just to make sure I did a good job - well there go my christiam ethics....but sometimes a girl had gotta do what a girl has gotta do!!!!!!! (And bugg@r the insurance).

As I found out yesterday- life is too short.

Saffie

Morning Saffie,

H

the very first time the OW messed with my H, we all worked at the same place. Everytime I would meet her in the factory she would glare at me.

This time I seen her at convience store a couple of months back. I walked in and again she glared at me. Said "f**k you" without saying it.

It's like where does she get off acting like I am the one that has done her wrong? My life, my H she is stepping in to take over. What have I ever done to her?

My opinion on their attitude is that they know they don't have the real thing. More than likely they feel like a distraction and feel they're on shaky ground. Some are cocky as hell from what I've seen/read because they feel they've "won" but really, what exactly is that they think they've beaten us at?

I don't feel beaten at all. I'm dealing with reality and proving to myself and to those around me what I'm really made of.