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Jar - you are truly amazing.

I walked into the den of eniquity on Friday night and although I got slaughtered I survived.

Like you I think the people there pity me but I guess they probably don't. I think the situation my H put them in made them all feel uncomfortable.

What pisses me off now tho' is that he maintains that no-one at his Co. ever thinks about it anymore - yeah right - that's why one person came up and asked me if I had ever thought about having an A to get my own back and it's why his PA can't look me in the face because she helped arrange all their rendevous. I think she must realise I am on a long term mission to get her sacked!!!!! She is still in daily contact with the OW.

Jar, I don't know how you contained yourself - you have my utmost respect.

Saffie

hey jar, hope you slept well.....

Howdy all!!

lwb- thanks!! I slept great actually. I guess I'm truly detaching. No update.. W texted around 11 "Good Morning! Tell my beautiful girls I love them"

No response from me.

Decorated my house today for Xmas.. put up my puny tree. I have more decorations than tree!!

Girls enjoyed it. It will be interesting to see how W reacts. She wanted to decorate with us. I'm not interested in that anymore.

Hope you all are having a great Sunday!!

Hey jar, nothing wrong with a little detaching when it keeps us super sane.

Yay for the tree. How exciting. No worries about W being bummed out, I am sure she'll look for a pity party......

Any more texts?

Nope.. nothing.

Good.

Good job Jar.

So.. got my phone on vibrate, so I didn't hear W call.

Left a VM mentioning the text. She also wanted to know how the party went last night. Said she's been home all day. Not sure why she felt that was important.. unless she was expecting me to call her.

She said she was running errands.. I really hope she doesn't stop by.

I'll wait till she calls tonight to talk to the girls.

I'm taking the D's to Pizza Hut for dinner.. D5 got a certificate from her little reader program.

Ohh you just reminded me!! D5 got a certificate too (for a different restaurant). We are headed there for dinner. There is no time the 4 of us could go before it expires, so that is my excuse for not inviting H.

Yah, thanks for letting me know you would be home all day. Not.Really.Concerned.

I offered long ago for all of us to go. For that matter.. I've offered quite a bit over the last couple of months. They are all off the table now.

I'll take advice on this.. I had mentioned to W that we could all take the D's to see Santa. I'm thinking about proposing separate trips.

One for Daddy's house and One for Mom's house.

I don't want to confuse the D's, but I'm really not interested in trying to schedule something with her.

I'd almost rather just take them and deal with the fallout, but I would be upset if she did that to me.

Any suggestions?

This is exactly why I tread lightly, even around this trip to see the lights. It would hurt me if I was not included, and not notified beforehand.

Are you guys doing Christmas day together? Another poster on here will not be seeing her spouse on Christmas day, so she is willing to do the "Santa came twice!" thing, for the kids, so no one is left out.

Do you think she will want all 4 of you to go? You would rather go alone, so I would push for that. Not in an evil way, but make plans so everyone is happy. Although with her, she'll make you feel bad for being 'mean'. You can take it. I am sure she has plans for a picture with Santa with OM's kids anyway (BLECKY)

Santa visit is covered here. We always do "Breakfast with Santa" at D3's school (not where OW is, thankthelord) as our Santa visit. H is working this year, so Grandma is coming with us.