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Hey B,
I was thinking too that maybe it was weird for her that you were at her place. I think I remembering you saying you hadn't been there before? That's the place she's created for herself so maybe she was feeling a little odd with you being on her turf. Doesn't sound like you were pushy...I think it's probably still more about her than anything you did.
I do understand your frustration.

Things are ok at this end. Went to a b-day party for a friends 1 year old. It's interesting wrangling a 2 1/2 yr old and a newborn. Luckily the little guy slept most of the time. It's getting easier to be around friends like that...a lot of people still give me the 'poor thing' looks.

I'm finding it most difficult right now to deal w/ H's unreasonable coldness and anger toward me. It's so weird because he really has no reason to be angry at me yet it's so strong and obvious. It's not like him, I've never seen him like this, ever...especially unprovoked. It's really hard for me to take and as soon as he left after dropping D off I cried...but I was glad I held it together while he was here. It's hard to detach when I pretty much see him every day. It's just so tough to accept anyone being that cold and cruel to me for no reason let alone the man I love so much and the one I married. The feedback is that it's guilt manifesting itself in anger...I just wish he knew that!

Sorry for the poor me crap...I'm just at that place right now I guess!
J~