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Kids are awesome. Had a good weekend with mine. My 11 yr D even made me dinner from scratch last night.... and it was pretty good

w got home from trip to grandmas at 11.00pm last night, obviously did not want to be home around me. i got out of bed to say hi. she seemed in a foul mood. she seems very unhappy, but not willing to try to work on r at all. kids did not talk about their mom at all during weekend. it makes me very sad. she still is not ready to dicuss anything to do with relationship. obviously not ready yet. she does not know what she is missing.

Congrats on the new baby! Well I say, if she is ignoring this, then you have more for you to enjoy!

Too bad she is being so removed. But remember she is an ALIEN and on a journey that she must travel by herself. According to your posts, she must be out past Pluto right now...;)

Keep having fun with your family and let her know all of the important family things (so deep inside she will know what she is missing) and just keep doing what you are doing and LRT'ing. She will someday start to realize how strange and selfish she is being, but that is her trip to take. Some people take longer to discover themselves again, and only she can do that, no one else can help, unfortunately. Or we wouldn't all be here venting!

Hang in there Craig.

pud, thank you. just read your last post. you and your husband seem to be making some major strides. that is such great news. as far as i go, youre right, it is my wifes journey, i can only stand back and watch. i did show her some pictures of the new baby. i feel so sorry for my wife. but i am personally doing great, reengaged spiritually, definitely enjoying going to church again. i will be putting christmas decorations up this week. i know the kids really enjoy them when they are all up. great time of the year. son decided he will not go with mother and sister to visit grandmother
after christmas. i really figured he would not go. i am really liking the new me. alot more easy going. no so quick to anger. i hope my wife will get to know him.

Craig,

It sounds like you are heading to a good place. I'm trying to follow your example. Not feeling it today. Monday's suck.

woog, i am feeling better every week. read back on your postings. you have come along way. the progression takes time. i wish my w would show some indication of wanting to rethink her stance, but for now it remains the same. i know she is not happy, she cannot hide that. as far as monday's go, i usually look forward to them, because the weekends are usually harder to deal with, more time together. she seems more uncormfortable. have a great week.

i want to hold and kiss my wife, she walks in looking sexy and beautiful. it is going to be a long night, need to take a cold shower. sorry everybody, no affection for two months plus. having a tough night. i miss her so much . i want my wife back ,the aliens have had her too long. selfish. need to take a long walk.

i want to hold and kiss my wife, she walks in looking sexy and beautiful. it is going to be a long night, need to take a cold shower. sorry everybody, no affection for two months plus. having a tough night. i miss her so much . i want my wife back ,the aliens have had her too long. selfish. need to take a long walk.

Craig,

I know what you are feeling brother. I went out and worked in the garage to distract myself.

Brutal

Don't apologize Craig, we know how you feel. Every time I see my wife I think to myself how did I not show my love and appreciation (in the way that she needed) to a person who is so beautiful, inside and out. Of course, she is less beautiful inside these days, at least to me, wish the old her would come back.

Keep taking those long walks. I've been doing a lot of those, helps to get out in the crisp air and get the blood flowing, clears the mind.