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Since your both getting along somewhat you may want to try counseling while you can get him to go...or a couples retreat. If he doesn't want to go tell him you want to go anyhow...he will probably change his mind and go with you after some time. Make sure you pick a goal oriented counselor. Good luck...hang in there!

Hey Illuminata,

Wow, GREAT post! I think you're 100% right--we need to fight the Automatic Negative Thoughts and just let things be. Pats on the back to you!

Thanks--Could you please look at my post...I am new here and need advice asap...my post is in MLC...Thanks for any help!