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hi husband.

RHW, if you have any extra positive vibes, please send 'em to the midwest.

You got it --- sending them via telepathy through the computer as I type this

Husband-

I think I need some of your positive attitude. I know you've been at this a long time, but you amaze me. You just seem so up and positive. I know you have your down days too, but you're just such a upbeat guy.

Redhead.....I'll take some of the positive vibes up in MN too!!

Thanks- Sues

Ladies,

I am at work right now but I will will send a MOJO your way.

Now see I did not say try to send one.... I will send one ..no....two.....catch
husband

Ok ,

EVERY GUY on this board needs to go get the "No More Mr. Nice Guy"
Book.
It is great. Like I said before in is NOT a save my marriage book. It is a save myself book. When reading it I see myself. And I have learned why I have done some things.
It's Amazing..... I feel stronger every day. I have only read the book once and am going to read it again and do the activities this time.
GO GET THIS BOOK. It's about $11.50 on amazon.com

Husband

H - I'm going to get the book. Also, thanks for the note on how to start the day. I'm going to try it.

LL

Glad that book is helping you. I guess that's what this is all about -- making sure WE are ok and the best person we can be and then hoping that that incorporates itself into our M and that our spouse sees the changes, etc.

I was journaling this a.m. over on my thread in Piecing. Wrote out my "love story" if anyone is interested.

Where's my coffee??? Have a great day everybody! It's Friday

I read your 'love story' and it made me feel all nice inside

I feel that the way H and I met meant we were meant to be together - I just get some 'doubtful' days along the road sometimes!!!!!

Our central heating broke last night and because it is so cold so did lots of other peoples!!!!! Can't get an engineer until tomorrow afternoon and it is so cold I can see my breath as I breathe out whilst I am typing!!!!!!!! Brrrrrrrrrrrr........

Hey, husband - you think if you are reading that book all us girlies should be reading 'Why men marry Bitches' just to counter balance things?

I am going to go out to a coffee shop soon for lunch i think to warm up!!!!!

Saffie

Ok Saffie,
Leo:

Daily Extended Forecast for November 16, 2007

Are you intimidated by anyone right now? If so, you need to spend time with them today. Don't veer into stalker territory, but you should try your best to spend as much time as you can with someone who makes you feel self conscious or nervous today. The more you can see them for who they really are, the less uncomfortable they will make you feel in the future. If no one intimidates you, then keep an eye out for a shy person who's doing their best to get to know you -- be friendly!

As for me:

Daily Extended Forecast for November 16, 2007

Sometimes, an interruption can be a very good thing. It forces you to pause and take a step off the road you've been traveling on. Yes, it certainly can be annoying to have to stop what you are doing, but you can easily turn a break in the action into a very positive experience. Today, use any downtime you have to double check the work you've done so far, and do not be afraid to admit that it may be time for you to change course or direction. Every now and then, life moves too fast for you to adjust. This is one of those times. The good news is that adjusting isn't part of the lesson, and it's not necessary. As soon as you're settled, the landscape will change again. Relax and enjoy the ride.

I feel I am headed down the road and have left W behind to figure things out for herself.
I have not talked R talk. I have been just "doing my own thing" Activities with my son and such. I have been thinking maybe it is time to test the waters again. But not from a talk R perspective. But from a re establishing contact / connections perspective.

W has gone all out trying to find Veggie. Recipes and cooking dinners. She was a little disappointed last night when she came home late because I had already made son dinner and was putting some bean burritos’ in the microwave for me. She said she wanted to make this new dish she found. I told her to go ahead and make it. If I don't eat it tonight I will in the morning. So she ended up making it. I ate some this morning it was good.
What is weird (and I am not going to try to figure this out) is If I had not made son dinner and I had not ate, in the past she would have said "Well you knew I would be home late you should have made something"


Mark Paul , Andy and Michael get ready. I am almost finished with my first reading and getting ready for the second one that will involve my “Safe People”


Well today is going to be a good day. I woke up (that is always a good sign). It's FRIDAY..... Might go fishing with son this weekend..... Ah life is good.....

H

For me:

Daily Overview for November 17, 2007


Quickie:
After a long period of feeling like you have no control, you're back in charge now.

Overview:
You're feeling a bit out of place for some reason, but not in a bad way. Now is a good time to sit back and think about what the future holds -- and how you can shift the odds in your favor.


Have a great day

husband