I've only experienced simultaneous orgasm a handful of times in my life (as it were)
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Why can't he O in her vagina?
I don't know why... what difference does it make? I had one lover who could not come through IC because the V is too smooth. He needed the rougher stimulation of a hand. I had an older lover who knelt between my legs and stimulated himself until he was about to come and then inserted. Maybe his O is stronger when he uses his hand; my O is stronger when my V is empty (I guess because the contractions have farther to travel).
When I said "crabby," I meant I was hoping someone would find something generally positive about this scenario... whatever this man's faults and failings as a lover, his partner cannot likely call herself "sex-starved."
I'd be very interested in your opinion of the movie. But don't-- under any circumstances-- read the book. It's smarmy and awful.
Hmmm....I think maybe my lack of experience is coming through. My only experience has been with cac and as far as I know, he prefers to O during I/C. I guess I just wasn't thinking that that wouldn't or couldn't be the case for everyone.
We have O'd simultaneously (or pretty close together) a lot because it just works out that way. My O's are much stronger and much more preferable with him inside (something to squeeze).
When I said "crabby," I meant I was hoping someone would find something generally positive about this scenario... whatever this man's faults and failings as a lover, his partner cannot likely call herself "sex-starved."
Oh, OK, I see what you're saying. I didn't see it as completely negative, just too much of good thing, if there is such a thing. I honestly didn't view their sex life as either sex-starved or sex-full. He said she O's every time. He didn't say how often they have sex. I O every time (except for when I took SSRIs). Yet, I have always been in a SSM. I had the impression that this guy's wife would be LD if he wasn't doing all this stuff. LD people don't typically feel sex-starved anyway. But maybe after doing all this stuff, HE isn't sex-starved.
That probably doesn't help at all, does it?
One of these days I'll rent the movie and let you know what I think.
I'm not offended, IC. I know you're in a bad spot. I wondered about that position myself! There are a few people on this BB who brag like that (male and female)..
I'm sorry if I came off cranky. I think people will be inclined to pick on that guy for the same reason people pick on Martha Stewart. It's delightful to be served a perfect Creme Caramel Mousse but it's annoying to hear somebody say "I know how to make the perfect Creme Caramel Mousse." For instance, I know it's more dorky than sexy when I post directions/recipes for giving good head on the BB.
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I'm not offended, IC. I know you're in a bad spot. I wondered about that position myself! There are a few people on this BB who brag like that (male and female)..
Continuing on a dorky vein, I think general physical condition and athleticism as well as relative proportions of the two people having sex has a lot to do with ease of performing "tricky" positions. For instance, I have the bad habit of sometimes spreading my knees and sinking lower and lower when in doggie-style position. A certain ill-mannered rather lazy and jaded long-term sexual partner of mine would tap me crankily on the *ss signaling "Get up" when I did this. My current polite, giant, athletic and well-conditioned partner just kind of bounces me up in the air with his thighs while still f*cking full-throttle forward and thereby puts me in a position I have decided to name "Flying Shish-Kebob".
"Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?" - Mary Oliver
This is sex. There was no making love here. I am not interested in having sex. The orgasam is NOT the purpose of making love, it is the purpose of sex. Also, HE is providing the desire, and that is NOT acceptable.
I'll be in the missionary position, but up on my hands and toes with nothing touching except my penis.
I'm impressed...how does he do this and still find a way to pat himself on the back
I was thinking about this position and decided that I couldn't do it because my arms aren't long enough.
Hairdog
yeah...I was gonna add that its other ferrous charactaristics enable it to be used like a "kick-stand", for completely hands-free operation.
...and thereby puts me in a position I have decided to name "Flying Shish-Kebob".
yeah? well...him, too.
check the videos on this page: http://www.trojangames.co.uk/ particularly, the weigh-lifting one. (*warning*: moderately risque european joke-commercials)
"a thrilling display of sexual athleticism"
I know it's more dorky than sexy when I post directions/recipes for giving good head on the BB
