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mwel #1258523 11/09/07 02:43 PM
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MWEL,

Ya may need to back peddle. Is there anything you can say as a "Deal" instead. Maybe like we can get Twin beds or I'll sleep on the floor.?

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Originally Posted By: husband
MWEL,

Ya may need to back peddle. Is there anything you can say as a "Deal" instead. Maybe like we can get Twin beds or I'll sleep on the floor.?
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Well I was actually going to suggest that if she goes. That we could get two beds or I will get a cot and sleep on that instead. I was going to work that angle but I am only going to use it if I can not find anyone else to go...

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Okay so she just sent me another text message asking "what deal are you talking about the other day?" I have not answered it nor do I think I will. Suggestions???

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Originally Posted By: mwel
Okay so she just sent me another text message asking "what deal are you talking about the other day?" I have not answered it nor do I think I will. Suggestions???


I told ya tell her about the twin beds... You need to respond or she will keep it up.

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Okay so she just sent me another text message asking "what deal are you talking about the other day?" I have not answered it nor do I think I will. Suggestions???


I told ya tell her about the twin beds... You need to respond or she will keep it up.
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I told her that I was going to look for someone else to go...I was only going to use that if I couldnt find anyone else..

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Okay, so I just told her that I couldnt remember and if I think of it I'll let her know...that is how i played it.. I told her that I am crazy busy here at work, which is true..

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That will work too

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Well, havnt talked to her since she came clean. I did see that she is still using the joint acct but she is putting money in it. I saw that she went to cleveland again so see some guy, second weekend in a row. Do you think she uses the joint acct on purpose because she knows I will look or is it that she just doesn't care..

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MWEL,

I have a hard enough time figuring out why I do things let alone try to figure out why someone else does them.
How do you know she went to see "some guy"? Hey As long as she is putting money in it is not a problem. WHen you start noticing it going the other way is time for concern.

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Originally Posted By: husband
MWEL,

I have a hard enough time figuring out why I do things let alone try to figure out why someone else does them.
How do you know she went to see "some guy"? Hey As long as she is putting money in it is not a problem. WHen you start noticing it going the other way is time for concern.
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I know she went to see this guy because she told me. When she came clean I asked why did she go to Cleveland, she said to see someone. Later she admitted that it was a guy that she meet. Im not concern with her using the acct as long as she puts money in there. Sometimes I think she just uses it because she know that I check the acct everyday to track my money.

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