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Re: Learning to Trust LuvMyHusband #1257494 11/08/07 04:12 PM
Joined: Oct 2007 Posts: 280 H hurtandlost Member
hurtandlost Member H Joined: Oct 2007 Posts: 280	I am glad you could get some rest and you feel stronger! Having a plan sounds great. You go, girl. M 10 years Me: 34 y H : 35 y Bomb: March/07

Re: Learning to Trust hurtandlost #1257620 11/08/07 05:44 PM
Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 2,866 USA F fightingirish Member
fightingirish Member F Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 2,866 USA	Hey luv, Got your message via Jarhead.. What did you need some help with. I hope today is a better day than mine right now.. feel like kicking H.. but he's not even here for me to do it.. tal me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06 Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.

Re: Learning to Trust fightingirish #1257633 11/08/07 05:50 PM
Joined: Oct 2007 Posts: 820 US L LuvMyHusband OP Member
OP LuvMyHusband Member L Joined: Oct 2007 Posts: 820 US	darn, I hate it when they aren't here to beat them up. can I email you privately? LuvMyHusband Me: 41 H: 43 ch: 3 M: 7+ T: 10+ Bomb: EA 8/07, A over phone/net 10/07 Seperated: 9/07 H ended A/EA with OW again on 1/2008 Reconsile: 3/26/2008, H admitted PA

Re: Learning to Trust LuvMyHusband #1257652 11/08/07 06:05 PM
Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 2,866 USA F fightingirish Member
fightingirish Member F Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 2,866 USA	Sure...tem420@gmail.com tal me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06 Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.

Re: Learning to Trust fightingirish #1258499 11/09/07 02:10 PM
Joined: Oct 2007 Posts: 820 US L LuvMyHusband OP Member
OP LuvMyHusband Member L Joined: Oct 2007 Posts: 820 US	hi everyone, Here's an update. He has sent me several more texts. I have responded to NONE of them. I would like to share these very interesting texts with you. "If you really loved me you wouldn't even care if I did contact her. You would just keep loving me and show that I was wrong and let ME decide" "She doesn't even have my number" ( I sure have his now) "She contacted me and I responded and left the message there" "You must think I'm a complete idiot" (pretty much) "What I really wanted was a loving trusting caring wife and friend" "but I could never have that" "I'm not back with her...only email now to see what's going on" "She doesn't have my number and DOES understand what I did for a reason" (gee, I don't understand) "has it occured to you that I need to decide and change myself" I feel like he has lost his marbles. Btw, he also took the lingerie he bought for me with him when he left. Gee, I wonder where that is now. I'm not even going to ponder it as it will drive me nuts. LuvMyHusband Me: 41 H: 43 ch: 3 M: 7+ T: 10+ Bomb: EA 8/07, A over phone/net 10/07 Seperated: 9/07 H ended A/EA with OW again on 1/2008 Reconsile: 3/26/2008, H admitted PA

Re: Learning to Trust LuvMyHusband #1258527 11/09/07 02:47 PM
Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 2,866 USA F fightingirish Member
fightingirish Member F Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 2,866 USA	Luv, Yov've got mail! tal me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06 Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.

Re: Learning to Trust fightingirish #1258534 11/09/07 02:57 PM
Joined: Oct 2007 Posts: 820 US L LuvMyHusband OP Member
OP LuvMyHusband Member L Joined: Oct 2007 Posts: 820 US	Tal, I haven't received anything LuvMyHusband Me: 41 H: 43 ch: 3 M: 7+ T: 10+ Bomb: EA 8/07, A over phone/net 10/07 Seperated: 9/07 H ended A/EA with OW again on 1/2008 Reconsile: 3/26/2008, H admitted PA

Re: Learning to Trust LuvMyHusband #1258538 11/09/07 02:59 PM
Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 2,866 USA F fightingirish Member
fightingirish Member F Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 2,866 USA	let me know in a little while if you still haven't gotten it. tal me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06 Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.

Re: Learning to Trust fightingirish #1258542 11/09/07 03:01 PM
Joined: Oct 2007 Posts: 820 US L LuvMyHusband OP Member
OP LuvMyHusband Member L Joined: Oct 2007 Posts: 820 US	ok LuvMyHusband Me: 41 H: 43 ch: 3 M: 7+ T: 10+ Bomb: EA 8/07, A over phone/net 10/07 Seperated: 9/07 H ended A/EA with OW again on 1/2008 Reconsile: 3/26/2008, H admitted PA

Re: Learning to Trust LuvMyHusband #1258555 11/09/07 03:10 PM
Joined: Oct 2007 Posts: 280 H hurtandlost Member
hurtandlost Member H Joined: Oct 2007 Posts: 280	Good morning luv, How are you today? The text messages looks like he is talking to himself and excusing himself in his own mind for what he did. It's amazing how they can forgive themselves so easily. I was reading in another forum here that it's probably because they are dealing with their feelings longer than we are because of the time we were kept in the dark. It made sense to me. They could rationalize their guilt. M 10 years Me: 34 y H : 35 y Bomb: March/07

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