No, you're not a sucker, you are a woman who loved her husband enough to forgive him for his betrayal. He convince you that he could be trusted, you're not the first one that wanted to believe this so badly.
Do not beat yourself up. You are a victim, but you will not remain one!
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
that was his email to her. she pretty much said the same to him.
LuvMyHusband Me: 41 H: 43 ch: 3 M: 7+ T: 10+ Bomb: EA 8/07, A over phone/net 10/07 Seperated: 9/07 H ended A/EA with OW again on 1/2008 Reconsile: 3/26/2008, H admitted PA
Iknow I need to let this go and be stronger but it's just too fresh yet. I'm still licking my wounds.
LuvMyHusband Me: 41 H: 43 ch: 3 M: 7+ T: 10+ Bomb: EA 8/07, A over phone/net 10/07 Seperated: 9/07 H ended A/EA with OW again on 1/2008 Reconsile: 3/26/2008, H admitted PA
What kind of a person accepts to be with someone who can develop strategies to trick his wife? Can't the OW see it can come around and back at her (a bazooka i.e.)?
I know the focus shouldn't be her but I can't help but wondering.
oh luv, im so sorry. You need to grieve a bit, and that exactly what is like..i feel like kicking the crap out of him..
We are all here for you.. vent vent vent.. and remember he is not the last person on earth.. there are so many other people here that would appreciate you.
(((hugs)))
Traci
me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06
Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.
hi Hal, I'm doing ok. I actually slept all night last night. I am totally determined. Thank you for asking. I have a plan and will stick to it. Actually Stick is the key word and I think it's time he came up against the brick wall.
LuvMyHusband Me: 41 H: 43 ch: 3 M: 7+ T: 10+ Bomb: EA 8/07, A over phone/net 10/07 Seperated: 9/07 H ended A/EA with OW again on 1/2008 Reconsile: 3/26/2008, H admitted PA