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she has my other email address. I canceled it but it is still good till the 19th.


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Forward the emails to him so he sees how you got them. don't say a word.

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Luv,
I was thinking the same thing as Sara. Did he tell her in the emails he was trying to get money out of you. Don't forget to print a copy for your records.




Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are.
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Sara-

Great thought. Your H has got to open his eyes and see what a maniupulative B*tch this woman is. Unbelievable that she has the nerve to send these to you.

I agree, do send them without a word.

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What Sara said is a great idea. Do that and wait for his reaction.


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Those forwarded emails will speak volumes without you even having to open your mouth.




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Boy do I agree. Imagine what will be going on in H's head. First, if OW did send them to try to keep you apart when your H is in fact trying to find a way to break it off, that won't bode well for OW.

The other thing is if, unfortunately, your H is truly just doing this for the money.....Um, ooops, OW just F'd that up for him too.

Either way, the OW has kind of screwed herself on this one!

Is there any chance that she has access to his email and wrote them herself and sent them to you?? Just a thought.

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it doesn't matter. I'm done. I don't want to talk to him. I'm done. I don't want to feel ANYTHING anymore.


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he's a liar and a cheat.


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Bomb: EA 8/07, A over phone/net 10/07
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Please don't contact him unless it is the forwarded emails right now. Take time to think this through. We sometimes make hasty decisions in the heat of the moment that we later regret. Believe me I speak from experience.




Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are.
-- Bernice Johnson Reagon


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