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Hey no....

She will go ballistic if she found out you were snooping. If she is text book WAS she will. Even if your snooping is justified (I feel that we deserve answers), she won't like it one single bit. Have you outright asked her to be honest with you?

Sounds like she might be dipping her toes back in the water with regards to you, that is good. I totally understand how hard it is to not be included in plans. At this point, H usually makes himself gone if the girls are in bed/at school. He has also stated he is only here for the kids. Its not a nice feeling.



I hear ya. I walk the fine line between doormat and standing by the person I love. Its heartbreaking.

I even mentioned it to the attorney I met with. I am going to keep this quiet for now but it may come into our conversation in the future.

For now, I am just trying to get things right with me...

I think that's a great idea. You can't take it back if you tell her now, but you can definately control when you say it, and know when you are ready.

Hope all is well.

Take it from someone with a WAW that discovered my snooping in an uncontrolled fashion (she then promptly filed for divorce), don't confront her. In fact, stop snooping altogether (I know, easier said than done).

It is tough when I know there is something going on behind my back. I can not trust her further then I coudl throw her right now.

This is the only thing I have not detached from. Other than that I really do not care. I am ready to move forward with or without her.

She knows I snoop ad she snoops on me so the trust in our relationship is basically not there...