To Brit in OH et all.... Ohio IS represented here...
You know, it's that kinda thing that I want to say, "W, i'm not stupid, i know and looking back, i was stupid.... but i forgive you and want to move on with this..."
and kinda end it there for a bit, and THEN just play it cool.
Well, I bought the book. GEEEZE what a bummer. I noticed many things in there similar to my situation... even her shaving her pubic hair... GOD... it pisses me off, makes me sad, makes me think this is never going to work...all that.
Yeah, I remember that paragraph vividly. Made my heart sink. She swears that she hasn't spoken to / seen OG for weeks, but I noticed the other day how well groomed she is down there. Certainly isn't doing it for me. I've been trying like hell to avoid seeing her in the buff cause it just makes me crazy. Ugh.... So now I sit and wonder - is it really over between them?
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I'm glad I started to read it... but damn, it was such an eye opener. I didn't see very much hope in there other than preparing yourself for separation, which usually ends in divorce. But it did make me understand what my W is going through, and although difficult, I understand it a bit more.
I thought the same thing as I was reading through. My W is in stage 3 and it doesn't give you much hope at that point does it? There is a little bit of hope at the end of the second book on breaking out of limbo.
That's a tough one oh_guy. I've been in those shoes.
I'm not sure if it makes a difference. I think it still comes across as pursuing. Again... the bartering thing. "I know what you did, but come home and I will forgive you."
I did that... I did that early on. To be honest... sometimes she throws it in my face.
