I am pretty sure from his reaction that he was quite shocked to see me. He doesn't feel bad about me catching him, I can guarantee that one. He is angry, very angry. No need for me to worry because he won't call me. No calls to ignore here.
he's angry because he's a guilty child with his hand, while not quite caught in the cookie jar, was pretty damn close.
why is it we are the ones doing all the book reading, the attempted repair work, everything, and they are acting
maybe mk is right. maybe they are the enemy.
sorry, I'm not helping here. I just get so mad at how cavalier these WAS are. the lie, the deceit. instead of being ashamed, its like they get a high from it. even if he is just stalking her, that is just gross. and how dare he try to turn it around on you.
I wish you had checked your book out so you could have thrown it at him later.
sorry. will stop now. I'm not helping at all, probably doing the opposite in fact.
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
LWB, I just now got on the board. I've been in meetings all day. Honey, I'm so sorry that you had to witness that. I know it just cuts you to the core, but you are handling it so well. You didn't make a scene, I don't know if I would have been that strong. Remember that Jennifer Lopez movie where she beats the crap out of her husband, wow, I think that would be so fitting right now. Take care of yourself. I wish I was there to give you a hug and let you vent to me.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
I guess I am going to go against the grain. Because if I was being made a fool of I would hope so bad that the other person would call me. I really would. Here the poor guy is at home thinking his wife is trying when she is out fooling around.
To me this OW has everything to lose. She is SAHM who only has to run around and play all day. She would lose everything if her husband leaves her. She would have to get a job and be in the real world. I am sure right now she thought she was having fun. But I am sure even she has to have doubts deep down about how her life would be if with Mr. LWB who was unemployed for so long.
If I were you I would sit on it and do what your heart tells you to do. If it was me I think I would call. Sometimes you have to think really what do I have to lose at this point. Sure he could get mad. But heck he is mad now. He was mad before. UGH I am angry with you. What the he** is he thinking. He really has some gall to be mad at you.
