A bovine interloper then? As I thought. I am great, bloody great. Feel wonderful and not bad to look at either. Still retain my slim figure and girlish good looks after all these years. Wish we could post pics - I'd show you all what a true Yorkshire Lass looks like.
Puddle Do you have a Saks Off 5th? Go there, they have lots of good stuff.
Link to BCBG. http://www.edressme.com/bcbg.html Get a Juicy whatever, it all looks good. Get some Joes, Seven Jeans, they make your butt look good. I personally like Joes on women but have to try a lot on to get the right fit. No Boob shirts? Cmon, live a little! I am so Gay it is rediculous! No offense of course! C
Me: 46 Wife: 39 D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7 Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07 Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.
puddle, totally didn't even think about the anonymity thing. Good idea.
agree on the phew about the dog getting adopted. might be H's way of trying to make himself happy?
on the having hope or not having it. I think it's okay to have some hope. Not the kind of hope that makes you dwell on it, or causes you to think that's the only way you'll survive. but a hope that maybe H will see the light and possibly change his mind about things, and I will still be open to reconciling. you know what I mean? hope is a good thing I think.
hope you have lots of fun on the camping thing, I've always wanted to do that! Will definitely have to make some kind of plans for it someday.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
it's hot to look slutty??? I have a las vegas pic that could describe what you mentioned. lol
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
I LOVE that show CVA! it's great! and I could probably put ALL of my aunts on the show... and they'd blow all the other people away.
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
Puddle. I would say that you need to stand up for your boundaries, in regards to the COW. Maybe ask him why he feels it's necessary for the kids to be introduced to another woman in his life so soon? Does he think this will make them feel more secure in their family? Ask him to talk to the IC about it before he makes that decision. Tell him you are not trying to control his actions, but that you want to protect your children from confusion and more hurt. This is something that is very important to you and you would like for him to respect that.
I wouldn't just let it slide. However, I wouldn't expect him to abide by your "rules", but if you say it in a way that's not degrading or demanding, then he may just abide to it. He did change his mind about having contact in the home when he thought it was just fine before. right?
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
oh, and what exactly is a boob shirt, and what if you don't have any boobs to put in it???
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
No, just the opposite, not "slutty" sexy but not over the top or "out of the top"
Me: 46 Wife: 39 D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7 Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07 Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.
I would say that you need to stand up for your boundaries, in regards to the COW. Maybe ask him why he feels it's necessary for the kids to be introduced to another woman in his life so soon? Does he think this will make them feel more secure in their family? Ask him to talk to the IC about it before he makes that decision. Tell him you are not trying to control his actions, but that you want to protect your children from confusion and more hurt. This is something that is very important to you and you would like for him to respect that.
I actually agree with this strongly. I think it could hurt your kids to meet OW so early. Could you persuade him, in the interest of the kids, to hold off until you have consulted with an expert on it. And if he says, again, they don't know our kids, have the kids go meet/see the expert. (Personally, I don't think the experts need to know your kids to know what is happening.)
Good luck, Nomo
M 39 W 39 M'd 10 yrs; T 14 yrs S7 D4 Bomb 5-8-05 W not working on M 1-22-07; EA 2-22 DB 4-10 S 6-11 No more C Link
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