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Sounds good. You did well by listening to her.

Don't worry about what she says to OM. They have to paint us in a bad light to justify what they are doing. It hurt when I first heard what H told OW about me (cold, selfish, etc), but I realized why would he say "Hey, I love my wife, let's have an affair".

Yeah... I've realized that as well. I guess I'm using it as justification to be a little angry with her.

Ugh.

I guess it's also nice to be first one called.

I know it's only temporary, but it feels nice.

I know jarhead. I take what I can get sometimes. Sad, but true.

So... here is her latest email:

"I have missed some appt's with my lawyer and I need to catch up with him. I need to finish this thing. I don't know if I can take anymore. Anything I can do to hurry this along is what I'm shooting for."

This is odd for me, because she told me she isn't really interested in pursuing. I'll be curious to see how this goes.

She also said something about she was supposed to clean his house??? She said she was busy and she was sorry, but it may be one day next week when she doesn't have the kids.

OH MY GOD!!!! WHAT THE HELL IS SHE DOING??? He said I treated her like a slave and she's cleaning his house??????

Lastly.. she said she couldn't wait to see him on Sunday and would give him a big hug and kiss.

Wait. Is all of that email from your W to OM? I am confused.

Yes... I'm snooping her email.

Well no wonder you are going crazy!!!

I know... I need to let that go.. we are talking right now.

So.. she says her mom chewed her out about not seeing the lawyer. Her mom watched the kids tonight. Her mom payed for the lawyer and basically said the lawyer was going to cut her loose because she didn't have her stuff together.

I'm surprised, because her mom has told me she didn't want us to divorce. According to W.. she wants us to divorce.

Interesting...

W is very depressed... again.. saying she's not sure why she called.

She did ask about getting the D's costumes this weekend. I'm hanging with my brother/SIL this Saturday, and I told her I was wrapped up all day saturday. She asked what I was doing and I told her I was just hanging with some friends. She asked a friends name (who it's not) and I said no. She said "Oh.. well... nevermind I guess then."

Definitely impacted her..

She decided to hang up.. she's so down. She needs to go through this though.