My H is has become very resentful & things like that in my stich I have learned that only come back to bite me in the a$$.
I have learned not to take an eye for an eye. I dont want to be the same person my H has become. I have told him meaness has never gotten him what he wants. So the saying "kill'm w/ kindness...it works maybe you cant tell at that moment but in the long run it does. As w/ the saying what go around comes around.
Part of showing Gods love & compassion is what I am trying to be about & you know what it keeps my mind at ease.
Not getting her a card/ gift would be a 180 for me....there ya go!
Me: 46 Wife: 39 D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7 Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07 Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.
Hey Nada, today was the day. No recognition from either one of us.
Just read all of Homer's stuff. I need to do more pulling back, rejuvinate the house stuff next week and not be home so much.
C
Me: 46 Wife: 39 D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7 Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07 Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.
Mine is next month, but since H is showing signs of moving(slowly) back, what do you guys think? All his stuff is still at home from when he moved it back in over a week ago.
I dont know i have to mull it over & see what if anything happens by next month.
I am neither for or against at this point. This may change though....
Chicki, If anything, I could see a card but not a love one, maybe make him dinner and a small gift. I would just play it be ear to see how things work out for the next month.
Me: 41 H: 39 D: 6 S: 4 M-14 T-16 first bomb: 5-12-07 (M dead doesn't really want to work things out.) second bomb: 6-4-2007 (found note he wrote about wanting desperately to be with OW and would have to give up everything) Kelley
No house discussion yet either. Still thinking what I am going to do here.
Me: 46 Wife: 39 D: 13 S: 11, 9, 7 Bomb 3.2.07, Sep Same Day, D papers 11.1.07 Current Status - Wants to take me through Discovery, I will go to prison first.
Hope you do something special for yourself today...Go grab a big juicy Texan steak! Assuming your are not a vegen or anything
We have a bunch of Longhorn steakhouses here in MA and I just keep wondering if they aren't cheap ripoffs of real TX style steakhouses? Sort of like what the seafood restaurants maybe like in TX? Either way, I always enjoy a good steak when I can.
Anyway just some things that I wonder about geographically.
Me: 30 EX-H: 37 DD: 5 Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC. Divorce Final 8/14/08. Trying to move on with new life.
