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It was a perfect nite for a fire, about 55 degrees, no wind.

That is perfect. So, are ya' hung over??

No hang over, kept it pretty mellow, only 5 beers. We m ade fruit pies in the fire that filled me up.

Fruit pies in the fire? Never had those.. Do you make them in those sandwich-maker thingies??

Yup. Butter the outside of the bread and put canned pie filling in the middle.

Mmmmm Mmmmmm good

Well MC got a pretty good punch in the gut today. CW called this am and asked a few questions, logistical and info for her attorney to "compile" her pre-work. Then she talked about the MC and that she has issues she wants to discuss with him on how we can be better Christian parents. I asked her if this was the only reason and she said yes. I calmly told her that this was not what she had said in the past and she immediately denied that. I quoted what she said and she apologized for misleading me. She went on to say how she is confused and how she goes back and forth.

I am trying to hold my head up and keep a PMA, but this is hard.

I guess I will just say what everyone has always said to me. At least she is confused and not he!!-bent on going in the the "wrong" direction.

Ever wonder if we had been the WAS? Just curious, I've pondered this at length but can't seem to see myself doing the same.

Well, if I had an A, I would be castrated by now.

Anyway, WTH am I doing??? If she wants to bail on me, so be it. Her actions no longer control me. I have plenty going for me and if she chooses the FFOM, there is absolutly nothing I can do about it and I won't let it bring me down.

Oh and by the way, we are still going to the MC.

MC,
You are right you can only control your ownself, and you are doing a fine job of that. You do have plenty going for you.

I'm so sorry for the latest news. She's the loser, not you.

Yoyo