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Originally Posted By: andyv
I often wonder what goes through their heads? How could she put OM before her own daughter?

It's got me buggered................


Andy,
Figure this one out and ya can write a book and never work agian

husband.


I think it has to do with the self-delusion.

I believe my W actually thinks her actions will have no negative impact on our children's lives. She has actually bought into the MIL's cynical view that divorce is a "blessing" and that kids are so much more "resilient" than people realize -- and often come out stronger. Barf!

My reaction: "How worldly of you."


<Fog-Horn Leghorn impression> "That's not a complement there, son!" </impression>


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yep, my h subscribes to the, "kids are resilient" viewpoint, too.

hey, andy, i thought of you tonight...canberra actually made our local news. something about bugs. must have been something unusual going on to end up on a local boston station (couldn't hear over the din my kids were making)

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Originally Posted By: morgan
yep, my h subscribes to the, "kids are resilient" viewpoint, too.


I believe that is a standard quote from the WAS. My husband told me it wasn't about them, it was about us. Yeah,right!




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my husband actually asked why S5 was being so emotional a couple of months ago...about a month after he moved out. he figured s5 should be over it by then.


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Hey Andy,

Can you send me your email address please. mine is gabrielle_wrightathotmail.co.uk insert the @ where I have typed 'at'. My H has an email he wants me to send you!!!

Saffie


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Andy,
ya got mail


And if I claim to be a wise man, well
It surely means that I don't know
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Andy,
You have been absent from the board lately. Are you still flashing everyone at the beach? How are you?

Yoyo




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