Hmmm. This is a slippery road to navigate. My gut is telling me to let her have her space and allow her to reflect In the past, me dropping off the radar has always worked pretty well. On the flip side, I do understand the 180's and MOS. Also, even though we had relatively good correspondence, I know she is agitated: One wrong move here, and she starts running so to speak. At least now, she is calmer. I have to see her Friday to pick up a credit card statement because its my turn to pay it. Her birthday is Saturday, so I will play it cool and friendly and I will at least get her a card. Probably/maybe won't see her for quite awhile after that, so I DEFINITELY want to make a good impression and give her something to think about. The flowers suggestion...eh, another tricky one. That could be seen as pressure and I have read the rule about no gifts but since I haven't begged or smothered her, I just don't know. Then again, if I DON't do it, I agree she may take that as a slap in the face. Oh brother.
