I never knew my H was such a dishonest person until all of this happened. He could look me straight in the eye and lie without blinking an eye. It's sad that it becomes so easy to them. Odd thing is that my H thinks I should be totally honest with him. He wants to know everything about me and tries to be so elusive with me.
Oh, my... this is the (new) story of my life...
And probably the story of most other people as well. ... lwb, tal, husband, hope, andyv come to mind.... and many others as well...
I never knew my H was such a dishonest person until all of this happened. He could look me straight in the eye and lie without blinking an eye. It's sad that it becomes so easy to them
I could have written this myself. Its heartbreaking actually.
andy, I am glad you can spend your day in a better place now. That makes me happy.
I wonder if they ever realise how dishonest they are being? If not now, in time to come.
And I wonder if the lying continues after reconciling, because they have been conditioned to doing it so well and so easily, that it may become the Norm for them in the future.
I wonder, I wonder.............I wonder a lot of things
Hope, please don't ever leave us, you are one of our "family". I guess others get close on the other forums, but I don't think I could ever be as comfortable somewhere else.
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
Thanks, I haven't been able to make friends like you on the surviving board...maybe that's just because I'm trying to not spend as much time on here. I'm sure there are a lot of great people over there too.