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I'm here skots. Meet me in the playhouse.

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Ok everyone,

First of all I have to let ya all know I have been drinking and I don’t mean lemon aid. After work I came home and had something to eat. W asked me if I could hook up a phone line in her Office. SOOO I spliced into the line in my shop and ran a line. Then she asked about me running a Cable for the T.V in her office. She just wanted me to get a long cable and run it around the room but I think I will go under the house and run a cable. Then it happened. I noticed my W did not have her Wedding ring on. Now she has been moving things around in her "office" BUT..... Her ring was not on the dresser where she leaves it when she is not wearing them. Soooo I hit a bump on my PMA SOOOOO I went over MIL house and pruned her roses, Cleaned her gutters (it's supposed to rain tonight. I live in northern calif. It never rains in southern calif right Cali?) Then I trimmed her ivy. After I went in MIL house and had a couple shots of JD with her. When I got home W was in a good mood. I went out back and picked 6 sacks of apples form our tree to take into work tomorrow. After that W was getting dinner ready and she asked me if I wanted a rum and coke. I know I should not have but she asked me so I could not turn her down . then my son I were sitting at the table and a add for Mervyns was there and they had a sale on bras so son and I discussed bra sizes. And W got into it. This is good because before W would get all bothered if I said anything related to sex. We had a great dinner. I gave my W a kiss on the for head and thanked her for dinner. She said “you are welcome”. And I came here and started typing. I need to go to the store so I will be back in a bit to see if any body can make any since of anything I just wrote.

Husband (i think)

Husband-

I'm not sure what to think about your W taking her ring off. Has she done that before? Are you sure she didn't set it somewhere else? Maybe you need to give it just a little while to see if it gets put back on. I'm not much of one to talk. I look EVERY DAY to see if my H is wearing his.

I'm very proud of you for getting out of the house to go do other things. And for acting "as if" with her around dinner. At least that's how it sounds like you acted. I think the kiss on the forehead, the "you are welcome" and your W getting into the bra convo. is great.

Pamar reminds me from time to time to take a step back (which you did), take a deep breath and relax.

I think you need to just wait a bit to see if the ring goes back on and to see what her attitude is like the next day or so.

I know I don't post much to your thread, but I hope that helps. I'm sure the much wiser ladies & gentleman on the board will chime in.

Have a good night.

SueS

SueS,

the ring does not bother me becase her attatude is great. I am waiting for this weekend before I make the bold move and go for a hug.
I do think she took it off because she was working in her office.
then agian I have been drinking and am in a happy place right now.
I am goingto the store to pick up a few things. when I make it back I will log back on.

Thanks sues

Manuel
Oh Yea I am growing my beard back. I had one when we first got married. Then the grey hair started so I shaved it off. I do think I will dye it brown when it comes in.

just 3 words about the beard.....

Just For Men!! Go for it.

Good for you for feeling good about things.

I want to be in that happy place too!! Have any extra?

Have a good night. I'm a few hours ahead of you. It's night night for me. I'd stay up, but I'm beat!

SueS

I know GOOD husband better be walking to the store, and not driving.

What a nice night!!! See, you could have totally backslid by asking about the ring, but you totally did everything right. You rock husband.

hi there, anyone still there? Husband, you can buy the Just for Men hair dye.

I don't rock, I totally screwed up on the phone with H tonight. It's been a REALLY bad day.

I'm back...

Boy those lights at the store are bright... I did not get what I wanted (a bottle of JD) it was not in sale. But..... I did get the W her cable for her T.V in her office. I got my son some rice crispy treats and I got the dog a chew bone....
I sooo hope I am not setting my self up for a let down. Everything seems to be falling into place as long as "I" can get over the OM. What I mean by that is I have to let him go. I think when the time is right (maybe her b-day on Sunday) the stars are going to align and a hug will happen.
Warning the earth may shake a little if this does happen. I so much want to turn over my record to mark.
Mark I feel for ya dude but I have waited longer. It would just mean that you are next.

OK I know I need to turn down the attitude a little but I do think after the "letter" if she wanted out she would have said so.
Ok I will shut up now

Husband