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Lwb,

Isn't silly that we are all adults, (well most of us) and we need to play these games?.
It was so much easyer when I was in high school. If this happened back then I would have just kicked the cowards a$$ and dumped her and moved on.

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My Son has a sore throat today. (Must of been the cigars we had while playing pool).
Not sure if he is really that bad but if he stays home from his B=bal game today he will be reading instead for those two hours to catch up on his home work.

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Well, your son needs to toughen up if he is going to smoke. ;\) Hope he feels better.

You can't dump her and move on, you love her. That muddles it up a bit.

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Husband,
I'm so glad that the outing with your W went so well. I see some definite positives. She is seeing what an attentive wonderful man you are. I still think you need to read the book "The Wedding" by Nicholas Sparks. He really knew how to spoil his wife!

Sounds like you and your son had a great time also!




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Yes we had a good time. W is at her "girls overnighter" right now. I really do belives she is there becase I could find out so easy if she was not she would be stupid to lie. She has known these 3 ladies longer that me. I will write ya later because of a statement I wrote a few line back.

I am so happy for you. I felt like I was there when you said he held your hand. Maybe It was my wanting to hold my W hand so bad yesterday sent some MOJO to your husband. \:\)

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Manuel,
Thanks for sending the Mojo to my H! Isn't it weird how holding hands can make us feel so connected? It seems so intimate, it's like holding hands says I want to be here with you.

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Hey husband! Glad to hear last night's Taste event went well.

It seems to me you wife is very confused and does not know where to turn. Make sure that you communicate to her that you want her to be happy, and you are prepared to help her get there. In your letter you say you want "us to be happy" and you want to be happy, but I don't remember you saying that you want her to be happy....

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Thanks for the input mark,

I will send a last copy to you and the other monday night. I'm scared but I know it needs to be done.
Thanks for the suport

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Great thought Mark.




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Mark,
I was thinking about this and I am NOT going to change the letter. She may be "happy now" this is not the point of my letter. The point is what would make ME happy. Thanks for the thought. But I am leaving it as is. TONIGHT in the night it WILL BE SENT

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