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Sara, I am going to leave you and take up my exciting Friday night of putting away 5 loads of laundry and taking a hot shower. LOL Hope everyone has a good night.

OK, night. Boy you are hard working, all that laundry on top of the rest of your week!

Hi Everyone,
I've been home about 30 minutes from the game. It's 12:36 am. I'm exhausted. It's been a long day. I just wanted to give everyone an update before I head off to bed.

I talked to H after school today. I told him him that my friend and I were leaving around 4:30 to go to DD's game. He said that there was no way he could make that, so go ahead and he would drive down later.

Around 5:15 he called me and asked me where I was. I was about about 40 miles down the road by then. He said he was at the bank and was going to go change shirts and then come to the game. I told him that I was sure it would be okay by DD if he didn't make it to the game. I said they won't be dancing at half-time, only cheering. I said the main thing is she just doesn't want to ride the bus home and I've got that covered. He said well I don't want to disappoint her. I said I'm sure she will be okay. Then I caught myself and thought WTH am I doing. I'm encouraging him to stay in town and give OW a chance to try to get to him. So I said well, if you want to come I'm sure DD will be glad to see you.

He got there and came and sat with me and my friend. Afterwards we stopped and got something to eat. I told him bye and that was the end of it. I didn't say anything about seeing him later or anything. How is that for DBing?

Yeah, that sounds good. Smart to get him to drive all that way just to keep him away from her. Excellent work

Hello Everyone,
Sorry I didn't have time to get on yesterday, but I had a date!

Yesterday around 9:30 am my telephone rang, yes, you guessed it, it was my H. He told me he had planned on calling me Friday night to see if we had made it home okay from the game (12:00 am), but laid down for a second and woke up around 2:00 am. I was puzzled by that, seeing that I followed him all the way home on the two hour drive. He only exits from the interstate one exit from mine so basically he knew I made it home safely. He probably got to his house like 10 minutes before I got to mine.

We talked a while and he told me that he had been working already about two hours. I said so are you working all day? He said, "you will probably think this is crazy, but I thought we might head to the college game." I said," no, I think that sounds good." He said that his cousin and his family were going and we could meet them there. So H, youngest DD(oldest DD had plans), and I took a four hour road trip to the game.

When we got there we stopped by where some of our friends were tailgating and got a cold refreshing "beverage". Two of my closest friends were there. They were so happy to see us together.

As we were walking around DD kept pointing out cars that she liked and told him that's what I want for my next car. Yes, she's very spoiled. We walked by a Mercedes SUV and "I said that is gorgeous, you want to buy it for me?" He said "Honey, when have I not bought you what you want?" He said between you and DD I'm going to have to work 24 hours a day to buy you these cars and started laughing. He kept talking like we were together and even talked about future events. At one point DD's friend was teasing him and he looked at her and said teasingly "we're not going to take you to the lake with us anymore, are we?" and looked at me.

H was very sweet and attentive all day long. He held my hand while we were walking and during the game. He acted like he did when we were dating.

I have one more thing to add, one of my closest friends who has held my hand during all of this called me yesterday. Her H and mine have been friends longer than have, that's how I became friends with her. She said that her H told her that he and my H were going to their hunting club Thurs. afternoon and just out of the blue my H told her H that he had spent most of the previous weekend with me. The friend told him that was great and he was happy to hear it. That was the same day that he came up and helped me at the concession stand.

So I'm trying to take things very slowly, but I think it is very positive that he is talking to his friend about me and that he took me around family and friends.

OH YOYO YOYO YOYO!!

The pessimistic me was thinking you were absent because you were having a rough weekend. Boy oh boy I love to be wrong. This is wonderful, truly wonderful. Yeah yeah yeah, we know you know the drill...continue GAL, keep it slow, enjoy the moments, no R talk, and no hopes/wishes/dreams. But, wow, just wow!!!! And yes, he is 'out in the open' with you and talking to others about you.

I am so thrilled!

YES YOYO,

YOU ARE IN A HAPPY PLACE.

I am sooo happy for you. thanks you made my day.

Manuel

Thanks guys, ya'll are sweethearts!

Yoyo- this is fantastic!!

Don't forget, listen to lwb's advice... keep expectations low...

Thanks Mark. When he was saying things about the future I just listened

Never once did I bring up anything about these past months.

There is a ballgame next week closer to us. Our college team plays in two different stadiums. Next week the game will only be about 30 minutes away. H was talking about it. I never said anything about it. I'm not going to assume that we are all going as a family, but that's what it sounds like.