Husband, The OW's H has called every night this week, but I just ignore his calls. I have no idea what he has to say, but I just don't want to hear anything about my H and his ex-W. When I talk to him it just causes me to assume that things will never change!
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
It must be sooo hard for you. But I think if you realize that you feel bad after you talkto him and you don't want to feel bad then yes don't talk to him.
Everyone is diferant. i think it was LWB.s OW wanted to talkto her and she said no. I would LOVE to thellmy W OM a few things.
Husband
And if I claim to be a wise man, well It surely means that I don't know
Talking to OP's S is different to talking to OP. It depends on what he is like. If he is using you for support Yoyo then don't go near. You need to support you. OW's H is not your prob. What would your H think do you think if he knew OW's H was approaching you?
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
I have voice mail on my house phone. I too think if it is important he will leave a message. I do think sometimes he calls me for support, but I almost see him as needy. My H and OW knows that we have talked on the phone and they both got very angry. Wow, isn't that amazining the LBSes can't talk, but the betrayers can sleep togehter, amazing!
I really don't know what the exH hopes to accomplish, they are now divorced. He had a PI that documented the affair and she still got custody of their son, so what is he after now?
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
My curiosity doesn't always help me. Sometimes I think it is better not to know. The way things are for you right now I would keep doing what you are doing. What can you gain from talking to OW's H - it's hard to know. The only thing that would be good would be if he called to say that his W no longer sees your H but would that actually mean anything at the end of the day. the R that's important is between your H and you and how you feel about that - not anything else. Your PMA is the most important thing, (hark at me preaching now!!!). Protect that.
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
