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Hey I'm back for now,

Had to go to the Eye doc. My insisions is ok.Infact I delivered a load of fire wood today.(my side busniness that has been put on hold) Boy am I out of shape. Took son to get a new bat with money I got from fire wood. Then we went for milk shakes. I even called home to see if the W wanted one she didn't. When Son got home he was on his bike all day besides homework time. I helped him with his New England states map.Tomarow I get the tikets to the "Event" on saturday. I am thinking about going out on Friday night.

Husband

Sounds like a good day, and YAY for your son, mastering it!!!

LWB & Palmar,

Ya got mail

Husband

Off to bed see ya in the morning

Do you think goinging out Friday night would affect your wife's mood for your Saturday plans????
Matilda

H,

I was thinking the same thing Mat was thinking???/ But im going to assume not.

tal

Good point both of you.
The timing of this is important. I am giving her the letter on my second day back at work so she will be here by herself to read it and reflect. Also her B-day is the weekend after she reads the letter.
I am still thinking about the letter. There is so much more I want to say but I don't want to confuse the issue. Some of the additional things I was thinking about were:

How can she say I can not tell her she can't contact the OM but...She can tell me not to contact him?

My mom a couple of days ago told someone she could not go to a meeting because she had picked up my D from work. (She just said that because she didn't want to go). My W said " I don't like covering your mom's lie’s” WHAT?????? What do you think I have been doing for her?

I went to our Eye Doctor yesterday and I am going to the dentist today. Both receptionists are friends of the family and ALWAYS ask how my W is doing. It hurts to "lie" every time and say things are fine when I know they would be shocked if I just came out and said “oh she is having and affair"

Also there is trust. How can I truly trust her? It will take a while to gain the trust back.

There are many more things but I don't want to start throwing too much information at her.

Sorry I am getting nervous again. I feel like I am at the end of the road. I am going to make it or break it and this is my last chance.


Husband

got to go to the Dentist be back soon

Husband

Husband,

Thanks for the email - letter is awesome. Your right, there is so much more you would want to put in it, but KISS (keep it simple stupid).

Good luck and I'm with the others about Friday, use it to get 'excited' about Saturday.

Yoyo, Sara, Saffie, Mark, Pamar, Tal

You have mail

LWB yours came back. something wrong with the address

Husband