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Update:
Just talked to H on phone, had to call cuz this was the 1st deposit since he switched the set up...anyway--he was very kind (as usual) but as the conversation went on I find out that he feels he needs to pay OW's father << huh? He feels that OW wouldn't have gotten into such a mess unless it was his fault. So, OW father has been watching OW kids for 3 yrs in his house and that she's got him into debt--also OW father thinks H is such a great guy, best she's ever had ---YEAH. She's always picked losers << what they didn't have money? He's getting used and is blind to the fact.

I reminded him that OW father thinks H is a great guy even though she's breaking up his marriage? H got testy there. H promised and reinerated that I wouldn't lose the house and that he will make sure all is well...we'll see..

Reminds me that just because I suspect that he's with OW he is visitng her father most of the time, they've become best friends << YEAH, if I had someone paying my debts I'd be nice to him too.

Damn shame he doesn't see it. I told him he's not responsible for the worlds troubles, people cause their own problems and he doesn't have to bail them out.
H has always been one to rescue--at his own expense. I hope he wakes up soon.

I'm just so surprised at that. People sure can play others.