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Hey Husband,

will the shoe be on her right foot or her left foot?

Good Luck!

Yep, i'm still here. I'll update this weekend. Never new rollercoasters could be like this. I need some sleep now.

Light Switch

Hi Light Switch , good to hear from you. Hope you are doing well. The inmates are still all here.

Yep, we are all here in the asylum. Taking it over even!!!!

Saffie

hi bone head.

Hey LadyWith aBone head

Things are looking good for you. It's hard but ya need to feel good about yourself.

I pushed the "envelope" with My W this morning. If I have your E-mail I e-mail ya later. Testing the waters. I have detached and am in a good place. But I had to open the door a little to see if the W wants back in my life or not. I am prepping her for our conversation in two weeks.

Husband

What did you do to test the waters? Curious minds would like to know?

Hey Tal,

I sent her a e-mail, Can't really say here what I wrote. had very few words but it was provocative (sp?).

Starting a little persueing. Just a little. Wanted to see her reaction.

husband

H,

You are getting so enigmatic. I'm going to have to read that book now to figure you out, like Theo.

Good idea to use letters or email to discuss things with your wife. It gives her time to digest what you say and have a thoughtful response, rather than a knee-jerk reaction.

Sara,

I am not expecting a response from her. I just wanted to get her thinking about us. If there is an us. So like you said when our conversation does come up she has had time to think. But what I don't think she may realize is that after our conversation things will be different. One way or another because the room mate thing is not an option anymore.
None of this was in the book by the way. It’s my own doing / thinking

Husband

I think that is a good approach, but don't push too hard. You've made so much progress.