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Kelly, have you tried to peak his jealousy interest??? I can testify it works w/ my h and might even make them "wake up" some.

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I am hoping that when he sees the way that I am dressed that he will wonder. I don't want to come right out and say that I am going out on a date, with a guy but he is totally clueless to the subtle hints. Guess that I will have to wear eye shadow, lipstick and perfume too.


Me: 41
H: 39
D: 6
S: 4
M-14 T-16
first bomb: 5-12-07 (M dead doesn't really want to work things out.)
second bomb: 6-4-2007
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Good call on the perfume. My H never even noticed I wore perfume unti I moved out. Then he would comment all the time. But at that point it just pist me off. Sometimes the comments were accusatory but once he figured out there was no OM waiting in the wings it became more complimentary. It certainly gets attention. Do you have something new or different than your wore when he was around?


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Whenever I am all dolled up or just when Im getting ready and he is picking up the girls H always has to make a smart remark and to the girls at that "mommy has a date". Ive asked him to stop w/ the comments esp to the girls so last week he just asked where I was going. He looked so hurt & sad??? I wanted to run over and hug him but I refrained and continued getting ready.

Once I told him so & so asked me to the football game w/ him and his response was -you never wanted to go w/ me" Well, in reality he never really wanted me to go and hang out w/ his freinds I told him maybe they knew then about OW.

OW is like "another guy" according to H. She grew up a tomboy and knows all about sports.

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Originally Posted By: waw1978
Good call on the perfume. My H never even noticed I wore perfume unti I moved out.

Do you have something new or different than your wore when he was around?


His one compliment to me about wearing perfume years ago was that I smelled like a french whore.

I got a bunch of new clothes to wear for all the weight I lost. Some are from my teen-age niece so they fit like a glove.


Me: 41
H: 39
D: 6
S: 4
M-14 T-16
first bomb: 5-12-07 (M dead doesn't really want to work things out.)
second bomb: 6-4-2007
(found note he wrote about wanting desperately to be with OW and would have to give up everything)
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Awww women talk, OMG, such envy here LOL. Quick update on my end, W said WE need to move to another state. How's everyone today?


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Wow Kelley you must of lost ALOT of weight- teen age size???

MMH,

Why move?

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"His one compliment to me about wearing perfume years ago was that I smelled like a french whore."



Just for that put on twice as much...good the younger the clothes the better. Maybe you will get a "boy toy" after all.

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Just for that put on twice as much


Ug, from the guy's point of view. A little perfume goes a long way.

Kelley, have fun doing jello shots out of this guy's navel! Teenage size, eh? YEAH, BABY!

BD


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kelley's on a roll, how about a jello shot on the clevage? Would you let a man do that?

Perfumes isnt so bad. What's the deal with your H? Is the Amish?

chicki, cuz this state is so racist. I have never lived in a more racist state than Missouri.


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