I am hoping that when he sees the way that I am dressed that he will wonder. I don't want to come right out and say that I am going out on a date, with a guy but he is totally clueless to the subtle hints. Guess that I will have to wear eye shadow, lipstick and perfume too.
Me: 41 H: 39 D: 6 S: 4 M-14 T-16 first bomb: 5-12-07 (M dead doesn't really want to work things out.) second bomb: 6-4-2007 (found note he wrote about wanting desperately to be with OW and would have to give up everything) Kelley
Good call on the perfume. My H never even noticed I wore perfume unti I moved out. Then he would comment all the time. But at that point it just pist me off. Sometimes the comments were accusatory but once he figured out there was no OM waiting in the wings it became more complimentary. It certainly gets attention. Do you have something new or different than your wore when he was around?
Me: 30 EX-H: 37 DD: 5 Separated 6/07. MC for months, EX-H quit MC. Divorce Final 8/14/08. Trying to move on with new life.
Whenever I am all dolled up or just when Im getting ready and he is picking up the girls H always has to make a smart remark and to the girls at that "mommy has a date". Ive asked him to stop w/ the comments esp to the girls so last week he just asked where I was going. He looked so hurt & sad??? I wanted to run over and hug him but I refrained and continued getting ready.
Once I told him so & so asked me to the football game w/ him and his response was -you never wanted to go w/ me" Well, in reality he never really wanted me to go and hang out w/ his freinds I told him maybe they knew then about OW.
OW is like "another guy" according to H. She grew up a tomboy and knows all about sports.
Good call on the perfume. My H never even noticed I wore perfume unti I moved out.
Do you have something new or different than your wore when he was around?
His one compliment to me about wearing perfume years ago was that I smelled like a french whore.
I got a bunch of new clothes to wear for all the weight I lost. Some are from my teen-age niece so they fit like a glove.
Me: 41 H: 39 D: 6 S: 4 M-14 T-16 first bomb: 5-12-07 (M dead doesn't really want to work things out.) second bomb: 6-4-2007 (found note he wrote about wanting desperately to be with OW and would have to give up everything) Kelley