I am sorry to hear that it did not work out. I guess if anything my W had some issues, I was supposedly ok. She had an affair, and also had unprotected sex so could well have gotten pregnant, it did not happen.
The statement hits home in every way. I think because we are a little older, what this also did was put a lid on any baby making ideas for a little while at least, so that is another huge demon my W has to deal with it. I always said, and it probably did not resonate too well with W that I am happy with any circumstance or lot that life brings us. We can make the best out of any situation, but I was supposed to try and be superman, or if I am allowed what I called myself "robo cock" and make a baby.
Oh well, as I said, tell your friends or family if they are having conception problems to talk to a professional and develop a plan, or contact me,
Do you have a copy or source of that article, I can add it to my vast and ever growing library of odd things.
Cheers and a Great Afternoon to Everyone, smile as much as you can
In my case, we thought it was me. Then in 7/06 we had a failed IVF and found out it could be him. He started his affair in 10/06. OW "accidentally" got pregnant and is due in 3/08, so it looks like I was the problem after all.
Thanks so much for the information, as I said somewhere, what an eye opener we get when we are smacked about a little or a whole lot. That article explains our situation better than a story teller ever could.
I never call it a problem, but I know how hard it can be, yet I also know that with all the hardships there is also a lot of hope, pardon the pun, and much to smile about today and look forward to tomorrow. I know you have the stuff to get back up, just a matter of with whom and then who knows what will happen.
Maybe the baby isn't his, Hope! Wouldn't that be totally weird! If OW is willing to have an A with a married man, she would be willing (I would assume) to cheat on him too.
Hope the MC'ing is working well for you and your W, OTWB!
Me:57 H:52 M:28 Got another lawyer last year and filed. D35,S/D twins28,D22 EA4/04 End? Who knows? "Life is like a mirror. Smile at it and it smiles back at you." — Peace Pilgrim
Maybe the baby isn't his, Hope! Wouldn't that be totally weird! If OW is willing to have an A with a married man, she would be willing (I would assume) to cheat on him too.
Yeah, I wouldn't trust OW any further than you can throw her. She's taken conniving and manipulating to a whole new level. She will cheat on him or he'll cheat on her...it's only a matter of time. Actually, he already cheated on her with me, so what goes around comes around. Their life is a disaster and I'm glad that I have no part of it.
M:28, D finalized: 8/28/07 Current Thread
"When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand reasons to smile."
Sometimes just wanting a baby so bad can cause infertility. Often when a couple relax or 'give up' is when the pregnancy happens . My H's sister had two sons by IVF. The problem was initially with her H, (poor sperm) and then in one round of IVF she had an ectopic pregnancy and lost a fallopian tube. 10 weeks ago she found that she had fallen pregnant naturally when she had been told that was impossible. Stranger things do happen.
Saffie
Saffie me 46 H 46 M in 1986 D20,D18,S16,D13 H's A 01/05 to 07/06 H recommitted to M 07/06 renewed vows 09/06 Going from strength to strength
Just wanted to check in with some words and not just aimless looking at different posts. I am hanging in there and at times I feel a sense of calm and normalcy and at other times it is as if I am living with a stranger. Last night after trick or treating I just put my around her and it was is if I was poison, I guess I have to understand that it will come in time,
I bought the KLA DVD and watched it and I would love for my W to watch it as well, but she shows no interest in that or any book, we see a therapist together and she is seeing someone who she has seen for 3 years, but when it comes to the affair or books related to repairing our relationship she shows no interest.
I guess I am wondering if someone has any suggestions as to whether or not it would be good for her to watch it and if it is something that we could use as what I call a road map to rebuilding it would be much appreciated. Just as Michelle says, I feel that we are going in circles and circles, and I feel that it could be helpful.
That is all for now, Thanks everyone and I also did a Myspace since it is nice in weird way to see that we are all real people in this very surreal situation.
