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The gerlz????? ummmmmmmmmmmmm, ok........

Hiya muffin, yes you will get cooked for too. smoooch.

Vali, if you can't find them, that is ok, mamma, don't worry about it.

You will probably find it when you least expect it.

Hiya Speedy.

Hi Lissie, I have to say, that I love the apple pie guy with no strings attached !!!!

He sounds YUMMY ! xxxx

It is nipplie here this morning. I love the Fall.

So the Puff is doing some crazy, crazy stuff. I think he neds medical attention.

It is more than just having hatred for me, it is a losing of control. He has stolen from me, and well many other things, that hurt me.

I am having a hard time dealing with him, I always have to look over my shoulder, and I hate living like this.

The things he says to the children, are just nuts.

I will not fight him for money, that he is practically stealing from me, I will tell my L, and that is it,

The less i have to deal with him the better.

Just sucks.

I didn't read all your posts (holy 287 pages batman)

but

I wanted to tell you that I love you

(and my applepie will be better BUT...enjoy this one none-the-less!!!)

Sugar, I agree with CAPS, this goes beyond just not wanting to deal with him and face his ickiness...

There's something very wrong with Puff, beyond alien MLC, and you can't wrap your brain around it, nor should you. But he could well be into something criminal, illegal, physically harmful, mind altering. The kinds of things that yield a certain desperation that alters the way a person behaves and causes them to breach normal boundaries. It can also bring other people into the equation that care not one wit about you or the kids.

I am not trying to scare you, but this is not a time to avoid or say, I just want him to go away.

You and the kids could well be in danger. At a minimum, he is compromising their financial security.

You need to tell your lawyer everything, document everything. You also need to tell your family everything. Last week's airing out was good, but you can't just leave it there. Protection comes from having things out in the light of day...everyone close to you needs to know everything that is going on at this point.

This divorce thing has been puttering along long enough; it's time to put the pedal to the floor, you need some money, you need court ordered and monitored support, you need court ordered and monitored visitation. There needs to be some definition and locking in of what assets and income there is at a fixed point in time.

This is your and your kids future you are dealing with.

Hiya Cinders, and AN2.
The yelling at the kids and the very short temper, is new. Another new thing. I hate it.

Yes he is really sweet, then I get that

thought, well aren't they all sweet in the beginnong? bleh

He knows the drill, and he says not all guys are the same (sigh)

some really just want to be nice. I say ok. But I am ok with just Louie for now. Porbably forever (insert drama queen)