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Change the locks.

Regarding child support. Leave that to the mediator to explain.

I can hear the violin music now.

Why does he do laundry at your house anyway? He is getting too many perks, don't you think?

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There may be some limitations on changing the locks. But the OW laundry. Let that man know that no matter how much money he ends up paying, possession will be the law.

If her linens enter your home, and you get a hold of them, they will become yours, and they will be vaporized at your will.

Let him know your L is working to determine the value of doing OW laundry in your home with your utilities so the proper amount of compensation may be added to the support settlement.

Part of the agreement we have now is that H will see D1.5 in this house and will not be shuffled to H's apartment.

H watches her in this house 2x/week. That is when he sneaks the laundry into the house.

I am going to start with the little stuff. It will make him mad. Then I can introduce the other stuff which will make him madder.

It is not going to draw us closer but it is definitely setting firmer boundaries and I think that is good. Who knows?

was.

What's he going to do? Sue her.

Also, I do not need to change locks as H does not have access to the place any more.

not sure what you mean IMP

If you changed the locks, what would he do. Nada.

But since there is no more access, doesn't matter.

Breton - I cannot believe that your h brings over OWs laundry!

That is ridiculous on so many levels.

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H was nice to me today.

What does it say about me when instead of being happy, I am scared?

The MC thing has me nervous as hell. That's all I can say. I am pretty conflict avoidant and I am just scared.