I don't think D is easier otherwise I wouldn't be here. I'm just exhausted of doing what I take as DB and feeling like a doormat. I'll think of what to say though, I guess it should be something like I need time to unwind and would appreciate you extending the same courtesy I have shown you. Frame it in the "I" mindset. I think that's how I'm supposed to word it.
H 30 (me) W 28 Married 9 yrs 2 children EA found out on 7/5/07 ILYBNILWY 8/25/07 The unexamined life is not worth living -Socrates