Your partner may give in to some recent demands of yours and then produce a longer list detailing what you should be doing. Love will conquer all if you let it. Treat someone like your soulmate and they will become yours.
Well, H brought d dinner to the gym (Panda express) and when S brought the bag to D, H told me there was something in there for me. I thanked him.
Then later H called me and asked if we were home since S forgot a school paper at my house (while typying this I just realized that today is my day with the kids...Oops). anyway H asked if I'd like to see S in his new karate outfit (yes, H finally is taking S to karate) I said I'd love to.
So they came over. They were in the driveway when D and I got there. I went to the curb to get the trash and recycle bins and H came to help. I thanked him. Then I started to get my stuff out of the van- thanked him for dinner again as I grabbed it. then they came in. Stayed for a while as S ran around.
When they left, H said good night and I said goodbye.
I forgot to add that our last email conversation ended with me saying this to H....
<<<<<<Ask me to go to joint counseling, ask me to a movie, hold my hand, give me a hug, tell me you want to keep trying, ask me over for a night, come over for a night, bring me a starbucks, bring me Panda, touch my back when you walk by, talk to me in public...... That's all I need -- if you still want to try that is>>>>>>
I do like your email..I might have to steal some of that esp the starbucks which is down the corner from our house. I will have to take out the let me come over for my H lives w/ OW.
H felt that always asking me to come to his house was unfair-- thus the explaination from me that it wasn't the weekend that was unfair it was the treating me like sh!t during the week and like a girl friend on the weekends that was unfair-- so he stopped asking me over.
He never says yes to me asking him to my house. So ergo the stopping of the intamacy. He also never gives hugs to begin with. I was lucky to get a peck on the check when he picked me up at the airport last month.
