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Hi Lissie,

I'm glad Dick and his antics are giving you a laugh... they are just so crazy and becoming more and more transparent, aren't they?

I'm praying Jane makes plans for the two of them. Afterall, her children are scheduled to be with their Dads', so it leaves the two love birds alone for the weekend. I hope they find better things to do with themselves than plan on ruining my kids' homecoming evening.

Thank you, I am feeling better Lissie.... a brand new day, with a new direction. As long as I focus on our life, and stop looking over my shoulder for Dick, I am more positive and enjoy my life, even with it's ups and downs.

Take care of you, and your precious ones. God Bless

Love,

Laughing

Goal,

Their need to appear like up standing citizens is to help themselves over ride the guilt they have deep within. It's amazing what they will do to keep themselves from looking at what they have done to their families, and becoming responsible for the pain they have caused.

Yes, indeed, they live in two different worlds.

Take care, God Bless

Love,

Laughing

Say WHAT? Dick and Jane got tripped up in another court and some judge was smart enough to figure it out that it didn't add up?
Oh, what is the world coming to! Maybe justice?

Oh My Gosh J!

Was it him or was it memorex???? I checked your thread to see if it was indeed him, or just a look a like.... but there was nothing. Fill us in, PLEASE!

Is he lurking around town, having you think he's off in New Zealand?

I hope he has better things to do, and you won't have to go through any more harassment.

Huweee... how the MLC world turns.

Take care of you, God bless

Love,

Laughing

LOL Batty,

Just maybe justice is on it's way..... it may be a while before it hits my court room, but I still have hopes it will. I have to admit, it's good to see a bit of justice rear it's head, even when it doesn't directly affect me.

Take care, hope all is well, God Bless

Love,

Laughing

Laughing,
Well, it appears that Jane is going to be the one to bring some light to the dark situation. Dick won't be happy with this latest development over the health insurance. I have found that situation to be a very strange one. He marries her, leaves her behind and takes up w/another one. It almost sounds like a marriage of convenience. Wonder how long it will take for that one to end up in divorce court?

Your trip to city looking for furniture sounded like a lot of fun. I can't even imagine him wanting to assist in locating furniture after what he's put you through. He really is a nut job.

Laughing, I'm glad you found something you can afford and like. You'll have it home in no time!

Enjoy the week!

Oh Yes, Snodderly,

That situation is a very strange one, to say the least. Yes, it is a marriage of convenience, however, I still wonder what IS the convenience? Both have relationships with someone else, both have a home of their own, both are financially supporting themselves, so what is the connection...... not that it changes a thing for me, for I will always be grateful for being set free from all the worries, anxiety, all the games.

Oh, and yes, I realy questioned his desire to be helpful after all he has put the children and I through..... it really does boggle my mind...... except that he may have thought he was showing D that he is the "good" guy" in all of this.... maybe just some sort of imaginary bonus points.

I'm am looking forward to beginning of October.... Dick will have come and gone, and the final word on this psychological evaluation will be available for everyone to read.

I will continue to focus on building us and home, and making this place as comfortable as it possibly can be.

Have a great week yourself.

Love,

Laughing

Laughing,
Just wanted to say I was thinking about you and it sounds like you are doing a lot better these days. I am so happy about your new home. May God bless it and you.

Thank you Hope, you are so kind.

I was doing better.... but I woke up to a note taped to my door.... ahhh, yes, it was from the SRS! Now, I'm a bit anxious, worried about the unknown, and wondering why they have come back into my life.

I didn't hear them knock, although if they were to come in, they would have found the laundry done, the house clean and chicken and noodles in the crock pot, waiting for the children to come home.

I sit here feeling blessed, for when I came home from work this morning, I was given an extra boost of energy, with the desire to tidy up the house. It wasn't that the house was dirty, mind you, I had cleaned on Sunday. It was merely a touch up, if you will..... to put things back in it's place. I realize (again) we do have angels by our side, giving us direction/protection when we need it, and looking out for our best interests.... all we have to do, is listen, and today, for me, was just another confirmation.

Take care of you, God Bless

Love,

Laughing

Laughing,
The SRS visit could have been one of dropping by unannounced to see what your new place was like and how you are keeping it up. The SRS folks tend to drop in periodically for a while because of what is going on w/the children and their looney tune father.

You should ring them up and inquire as to what they needed and schedule a visit w/them. Put them on notice for a change. If they see that you are following up, it may go in your favor a bit more.

Hopefully things will remain quiet in your little world.