Atlas, You've said the same before. She's starting to realize that her choice isn't a bed of roses and is taking it out on you by lashing out. To me, it's seems like she's hung onto the short-term loss that your new job is creating to shift the blame from her to you. Don't take it.
The way your W has been up and down, I wouldn't be surprised if she was relatively pleasant later today or at some point in the next few days.
BD
My latest
Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY
I want nothing to do with her. She has lost it telling me I'm illogical, you know what is illogical?
Walking away from a good marriage, screwing with your 2 year olds head at an important time in his life, trading in a perfectly good paid for car for a piece of crap convertable with a huge car loan, getting an apartment you can't afford. That is illogical.
I'm not disagreeing that this may be the final straw that broke the camel's back. However, you've been here before. Look, you're W is a bit cuckoo at the moment. I still think she's trying the shift the blame about money from her to you. The reality is hitting her, and she doesn't like it.
My latest
Me: 36 W: 35 2 D: 9 and 5 T: 16 years M: 12 10/4/06: Bomb 10/5/06: Ended A 4/22/07: ILYBNILWY
