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You were just writing a few days ago that your W feels that she has you in the palm of her hand yet you can go a week without calling her to see how she is and confirm that feeling for her.

Focus on you. Stop worrying about your W. It's not working. Everytime you contact her, she almost certainly hear's the desperation that you feel to be with her. Do you think that's attractive to her?

Let her go, because, you know what, she is gone. You've read DR. Read it again. And again. When you feel like calling your W, post here or read DR or do anything else.

Let me ask you this: Do you want your W if she's only back because she's dependent on you? Because she needs you, not wants you? You deserve better than that.

Let her get on with her new life. Start living your new life. Maybe she'll see you moving on and come back. Maybe not. Regardless, she's gone for now. Accept it. It doesn't mean you stop DBing, it just means you do it more effectively.

BD