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8,

OMG...it's great to see your posts again.

I really missed you.

I'm glad things seem to moving along in a hopeful direction.

May God bless you.

Email me if you want. Maybe we can chat on the phone. I'm in need of strong men right now to stand with me. It's gotten very dark in my side of the forest.

theoden.king@hotmail.com

--Theoden

Theo;
Thanks, as I told ford, I really don't think I would be here if not for your help.

Where is here? Joint counciling session today, yet still separated, divorce proceeding postponed until oct., wife very nervous about session today. We were able to visit some this morning and she seemed upset so I just asked. She had a laundry list of things that she needed to get done, AND then there is this session today. I told her that I thought that was a positive thing. She said she never said it wasn't positive and wasn't I nervous about it? I told her that we didn't have anything to loose, and I was ready to talk about everything and anything. I told her that I didn't mean it in an uncaring way, because I know she never did anything to intentionally cause me pain, but that I could not be hurt anymore. Nothing that either one of us had to say could be any worse then what we have already been through.

Carpe Diem, we have nothing left to loose, only to gain!

Thank you my friend for getting that through to me.

Now you, what has been going on. I will check email if you don't respond here. Stay strong man, God has and will continue to bless you.

8,

Do email me. And honestly I need to talk to people.

I think I'm almost beyond DB. I'm almost ready to blow everything up.

My wife's affair ended in March, then I think re-started recently.

I'm exhausted.

I'm contemplating telling OM's wife and several other people in his life.

--Theoden

--Theoden

8,

Do email me. And honestly I need to talk to people.

I think I'm almost beyond DB. I'm almost ready to blow everything up.

My wife's affair ended in March, then I think re-started recently.

I'm exhausted.

I'm contemplating telling OM's wife and several other people in his life.

--Theoden

--Theoden

Theo,

I am certainly no expert here,but I remember reading another website how bringing it out in the open to everyone sometimes helps the reality settle in faster. I am sure at first she will be furious at you and you might feel like you are moving backward,but dont let that stop you. Let her get mad and tehn she will have to get over it.

IMO the OM's wife needs to know. Then and only then will the REAL pressure start.

theo,

I have just emailed you.

Saffie

Saffie,

I'll check it tonight. Thanks.

Theo,

Ok - I am praying for you.

Don't do anything too rash. Read my email. You sound fit to bust. Just hang in there.

Saffie

Theo

I have never written to you before, but would like to caution you to make sure that the A has started again before you say anything to the OM's W.

Just my opinion.

Faith

Yeah I would need to confirm it.

She doesn't know anything has happened.