I spoke with my H yesterday briefly about the 3 folks who've offered email correspondence, and their different perspectives/backgrounds. He initially cringed about it (these people don't know me, they're going to judge me), but actually became interested in being in contact with one at a time, which I understand - starting with Theo in infidelity (probably b/c he's a headhunter/interview coach by trade, but hey, I'm happy he's open to starting the process).
Please stand by my SSM friends. I predict Chrome will be on board next, saving NOP to add last. But that's just my thoughts, I'll let H run the show about that and will keep you posted.
We leave 9/1 for a week at the beach! -yahoo! vacation! (complete with added bonus of inlaws! whee!) from 9/1-9/8 and no time to get connected until afterward. So this whole process is on hold until the 2nd week of September for starting, but let me just say:
Thank you to all of you for your insights, when I posted a question, and I am touched that you offered unsolicited contact/frienship/encouragement to my H. He's wary of the whole friendship-by-internet, but if anyone can thwart those doubts, it's the people on this BB.
Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Is 43:18-19
If it seems slow in coming, wait. It's on its way. It will come right on time. Hab 2:3