Well the surgery didn't happen the Dr. got snowed in out of town so now it will be another month.We did spend quite a bit of time together this weekend.She met us for breakfast saturday morn and then went sleding with us and then sunday we all went shopping and to a birthday party and everything went fine.If I only knew her real feelings.If anyone gets the chance check out the show on HBO Joe Somebody,talk about all aspects of DBing.
Thanks rayanne,it will be first part of april now.I am just trying to not make it seem like I am pressureing her at all. I make sure and have a good PMA when she is around and just be a friend.Hopefully things will get better at least as friends.
I wish I could figure XW out,last night she invited me for supper and everything went fine,she acts just like we were still together,I only stayed a couple of hours and messed around with the kids and helped her do dishes.Then when I got ready to leave she clams up like she is sad I am leaving or something.She will hardly talk to me if I see her during but it's like she needs her fix and once shegets it she backs off for a while.Is there any WAWs that can explain this. Another weird thing I am taking the girls to a childrens stage show and one of the girls asked her to go and she asked me to get her a ticket so she could go with us.How should I treat these times together.i never try to touch her or say anything "romantic"
Thanks lostlove, Today is one of those dreaded days when something is digging at your insides and you want to call them but you know you shouldn't. Last night XW came by the house an stayed for 30 minutes while I was cooking supper for the girls and she just hung out.The d asked her if she wanted to eat but she said she wasn't hungery,I told her to have a good evening.After over a year of being D I wish I knew what my chances were,this being friends is hard. I try to take the right steps and I guess what I am doing must be helping.What is she looking for?
We had another decent weekend,I saw her for a little while saturday night and then she asked me to go shopping sunday with them and then we went and ate supper.She is pretty nice when ever I am around her and then she won't hardly even say bye when I leave. I know we will be together this weekend some so I will see what happens.Rayanne if you get a chance drop me an e-mail
I just have to keep in my head, baby steps.XW called and asked me to run to the store for her and it was no problem, since she wasn't feeling well.When I got back she invited me to stay for supper.
Another week has gone by and we all were supposed to go to a activity tonight.The XW was sick yesterday and I called to check in and see if she needed anything and she was nice.I will see if she is feeling ok today and still going tonight.if not I will find a good PMA and take the girls anyway and we will have fun. I wish I could find a WAW that could maybe explain some things to me,like why she still has her stuff at my house and why she stopped her lawyer from doing some $$ stuff and left it in my name.Is she trying to keep a connection too?
Well we spent another good weekend together,all of us went out friday night she started a little R talk and I just kind of let it drop. She invited me for supper saturday night and dinner yesterday.Is this normal for XW if they aren't thinking.
