Yoyo, Hope school keeps you busy and your thoughts on more productive things than your H! From reading back through your posts, I would not give up hope just yet. His lack of commitment to anything (even a rented apt.) could be the subject of several psychiatry journal articles, heck maybe even it's own book!
Just keep to your GAL activities and live your life for you and your kids. This will be more than enough when he finally wakes up (if you aren't taken by then)!!
SD
Me 41 W 41 Kids: S9 S7 Married 16 years Bomb dropped 2/2/07 Still living together! current thread
Yoyo, I really think that we are married to the same man...arrogant and materialistic sounds the same. My H grew up in a big family and never had much. I've always had a good job and H always worked hard...we worked hard to get ahead. If he wanted something, he would go buy it. I think some of his brothers and sisters were happy this happened to him to bring him down a few notches. All that material stuff that he cared about has almost all been sold now. The place that he built with his bare hands doesn't even matter to him. These OW sure can suck the life out of a man. We really are going to move on to better things. Maybe we will both be lucky enough to find men that appreciate us.
M:28, D finalized: 8/28/07 Current Thread
"When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand reasons to smile."
Okay, this is good for laugh. I found out that my H got a hair transplant. Daughter's friend said it looks like a mop. She said it is black and his fringe is gray. She said it parts down the middle and just hangs there and needs to be cut. I don't know anything about transplants so maybe you have to wait a while to get it cut??? MLC perhaps? His balding has always bothered him, but he never did anything about, but wear a cap, now this. Hmm.... I bet his employees are getting a good laugh out of this!
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
Can this man have 4 wives. He to sounds like mine. Different age groups but the same mold. He has turned into a whole different person. Hopeless, your H is in his 20's mine is 51 and it is so close that it is amazing. There must be a mold or like you said personalities. If we could figure it out we would be famous......
OMG, YOYO I just had such a great laugh at you saying H got a hair transplant. Is that not MLC or what!!!!! Have a Good day!!!!
Okay does anyone know anything about hair transplants. I thought they take hair from the back of the head. Well, my H's hair is gray. Well the new hair is black. I'm just wondering if it might be a toupee. I haven't seen it, my neice and daughter's friend said it it weird looking.
Originally Posted By: PennyMB
Can this man have 4 wives. He to sounds like mine. Different age groups but the same mold. He has turned into a whole different person. Hopeless, your H is in his 20's mine is 51 and it is so close that it is amazing. There must be a mold or like you said personalities. If we could figure it out we would be famous...
My H is 43. I guess they come in all ages, but all act the same. Maybe we are married to the same man and he has many disguises! I definitely know my H has changed for the worse!
Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon
