No it is not a bad thing and your not losing focus, you are human and want some companionship, and no that does not always mean what you are thinking. You could of called me, I would of stolen my kid out of school to go, think it is only a 2 hour drive, been so long since I have been over in that area.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
I think part of the problem is we all have friends, married ones who support us and what we are standing for, but don't have time to have us 3rd wheels hanging around, or single, divorced/never been married who think we are nuts for still standing for our marriages. I want some friends who are also going through this "not wishing it on anyone" but who I could hang out with, talk with who really understand what goes on in our heads. This place is great, but some human voices would be even better.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
I feel like a third wheel now. I have to think like a single mom now. Before, I did not notice that I did things independently and instinctively. Now, I feel pathetic and alone. I went to Fresh Choice, my D's fave, then I realized this is hard. Every time someone wants something we all have to get up and walk over to the buffet together! Before, my H would take a kid or I would watch one at the table, whatever. Just imagine flying to Disneyland alone. Whew! Either I go alone or I tag along with an intact family. It feels like Borrow a Dad.
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
