I know she doesn't intentionaly go out of her way to hurt me. However I would say that she is very careless!
It's kind of the same way we may have treated them in the past and that is what has put us where we are today. We never intentionally wanted to hurt and scar them and push them away, but we did.
The best thing you can do is just back off her. Give her her space, stop pursuing, stop the R talk and just let her fly free. Meanwhile you just take care of you and your needs.
“Do you want to be RIGHT or want to be LOVED” “You have to have a life to share a life with someone” “When you stop resisting, you start learning”
