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Yeah I am. Normally after the kids are in bed.

You taking your own advice?

Am I allowed to plead the 5th.

I haven't seen my son, or wife for that matter since last thursday. Also the same day I took my new position, I leave at 5:30 am and get home around 7pm everyday for the last 5 straight days, and I only live 5 minutes from work.
That leaves little time to worry about my situation, but as soon as I get home and shower I do go into deep thought mode, I need to stop doing that, I also need a day just to be me and nothing else.

This isn't a court of law.

How's the new job other then long hours. Geesh.

I've been able to avoid deep thought mode for a couple days. Too much other stuff going on. Course it'll all be over this weekend.

The job is great, wouldn't trade it for the world at the moment, might change my mind by tomorrow. The best part of it is that I am suppose to be salaried, but the bigger boss screwed up and made me hourly at my salaried rate.
It would be easier if I could see my son, but they went out of town last weekend, and with my schedule this week I might not be able to see him but one day if I get lucky, then he goes to the IL's for a 10 days. That means 18 days possibly without seeing him, I guess I shouldn't count days but it is hard not too.

Wow nice pay check.

He's just a busy boy these days. My oldest will be starting back to school in a couple weeks. Can't believe it's that soon. Summer just started.

I know he is busy and having a good time, just wish I was more of a part of it. Since our separation I have had him a minimum of 50% of the time, now nothing because of circumstances. I miss him more than her, hhmm maybe that is a good thing.

Well maybe your focused more on him then her these days. Not a bad thing.

Not a bad thing at all, just another one of those things I really have no control over. I can handle what ever happens with our marriage, he is another story.

Yeah no matter what gotta do what's best for the kids.