oh man, mk. sounds like we both spiraled a bit. although I do think setting bounderies is a good thing, so the first bit was great (at least imho). and omg, I hear you on the lines they draw...they wouldn't disrespect you on one thing, but the rest of it is all hunky dory.
the whole last bit you wrote, about having no soul in your presence, I could have written. awful, isn't it? I'm so sorry.
take care of yourself. when do you leave on vacation? if I missed you, have a great time! will miss you while you are gone.
M-41 H-38 M-10 years, T-14 years Bomb-PA 3/19/07 Separated-6/7/07 Piecing/h back home 5/08 S-6 S-4 D-4
"Courage doesn't always roar. Sometimes courage is that little voice at the end of the day that says, 'I'll try again tomorrow.'"
Hi indybyathread, your sitch sounds similiar to mine except that my H is having an affair. but I think hes having a MLC too. He got an apt. about 3 mos ago and I found out about the A then too. He doesnt wear his wedding ring anymore either. My son 13 his heartbroken. Ive been trying to GAL too. Me-43 h-49 S-13 M-19 years together -29 years
Hi indybyathread, your sitch sounds similiar to mine except that my H is having an affair. but I think hes having a MLC too. He got an apt. about 3 mos ago and I found out about the A then too. He doesnt wear his wedding ring anymore either. My son 13 his heartbroken. Ive been trying to GAL too. Me-43 h-49 S-13 M-19 years together -29 years
Hi indybyathread, your sitch sounds similiar to mine except that my H is having an affair. but I think hes having a MLC too. He got an apt. about 3 mos ago and I found out about the A then too. He doesnt wear his wedding ring anymore either. My son 13 his heartbroken. Ive been trying to GAL too. Me-43 h-49 S-13 M-19 years together -29 years
Hi indybyathread, your sitch sounds similiar to mine except that my H is having an affair. but I think hes having a MLC too. He got an apt. about 3 mos ago and I found out about the A then too. He doesnt wear his wedding ring anymore either. My son 13 his heartbroken. Ive been trying to GAL too. Me-43 h-49 S-13 M-19 years together -29 years
