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I pray she does too, Honeypot. I pray she does too.

Chrom,

Thanks for your faith. I also hope that my wife begins to make healthier decisions for herself, and ends up better and stronger. Not only do I still care for her, but my kids sure could use TWO emotionally-healthy parents in their lives!

Choc.

Chrom,

Thanks for your faith. I also hope that my wife begins to make healthier decisions for herself, and ends up better and stronger. Not only do I still care for her, but my kids sure could use TWO emotionally-healthy parents in their lives!

Choc.

Hey Choc.
Sorry it came to this, you did your best. All my best as you work your way through the storm to come.

Scott

Thanks, Scott. It's funny that you called it a "storm" because that was actually the theme of a couple of my previous threads. A storm it has been, and a storm it will be.

There's a dark cloud rising from the desert floor
I packed my bags and I'm heading straight into the storm
Gonna be a twister to blow everything down
That ain't got the faith to stand its ground
Blow away the dreams that tear you apart
Blow away the dreams that break your heart
Blow away the lies that leave you nothing but lost and brokenhearted

(Chorus)

The dogs on Main Street howl
`cause they understand
If I could take one moment into my hands
Mister I ain't a boy, no I'm a man
And I believe in a promised land

"Promised Land," by Bruce Springsteen

Oh yeah, and Choc, on the lighter side......I hope you meet someone sometime who will knock your socks off sexually.

Karen

Karen, I don't think it would take much. With as long as it's been for me, I think June Cleaver would knock my socks off.

OK, so maybe not June Cleaver. But I DID always think Donna Reed was really hot in "It's a Wonderful Life." Mmmmm...

I hear where you are coming from Choc - I could be swooned by someone pretty easily too

Heck, someone paying attention to me for more than 5 minutes would do the trick - pitiful huh?

I think you will be very surprised to find out how quickly you become as picky as you ever were. My advice to you would be to ignore the advice that will tell you not to be sexually assertive on a first date because I don't know how in the heck else you are going to be able to figure out which women are HD for you. At least take it to the level of passionate kiss if she lets you but maybe no further. Feel free to solicit all manner of advice from me along these lines in the future. My HD female brain is yours to pick.

Why so long?

Jeff