I realized that one, I was talking about DR. I have a thread up by michele that says if they are willing to let them read it. Not sure if that is in every case or just this one specific. So I shall keep investigating.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
I loaned my book to my W. She said she'd read it. She didn't. I asked for my copy back and she "can't find it." (sigh)
H-36 W-38 Married 14yrs Together 17 2 Children (D12, S15) 9/20/05 - Seperated 4/23/07 - Dbomb dropped 4/25/07 - I Love you, not in love "If it's not hard, it's not worth fighting for."
You are probably right, she didn't. That is her mistake. I know I posted about wanting to tell her to read it, well I guess I did tell her to read it. I confuse myself, I just claim "I am a male" . Well what I should have re-phrased was she agreed to read one chapter of one book of my choosing. When she told me this it was from me asking yesterday, she brought it up tonight, not I. So in some ways it has been on her mind since yesterday and not by me bringing it up again today. Damn I do need her in my life, she kept everything organized.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
I will continue to take care of myself, that part will not change. I know that it takes time to let the process of divorce happen, so I will use that time wisely. I also know she is watching in her own ways, she will see nothing but a happy man with his son.
I am going to research tomorrow to see if anything was actually filed, I still have this feeling nothing was, I hope she can't find out if I snooped about this, if possible then I won't.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
sigh. i wish you had been more patient, and waited for other book suggestions.
I'm guessing a better book for her to read, for someone who is in "its not my fault, but i'll read something" mode, is a general relationship book. eg: "fall in love, stay in love".
My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D. Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M. 3 wonderful sons caught in the middle
I recommend the Divorce Remedy to my friends who ask for advice. I would recommend it to anyone who is ready. My spouse is notready. He is in full self centered mode. The book would probably be a huge slap in the face because he does not believe he is in a MLC. I think the thread says to never tell someone who is in a MLC theye are having a MLC. I have friends who say there relationships look worse than ours'. Is divorce contagious? If we see our friends go through it, does it give us courage to leave or strength to stay?
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
I recommend the Divorce Remedy to my friends who ask for advice. I would recommend it to anyone who is ready. My spouse is notready. He is in full self centered mode. The book would probably be a huge slap in the face because he does not believe he is in a MLC. I think the thread says to never tell someone who is in a MLC theye are having a MLC. I have friends who say there relationships look worse than ours'. Is divorce contagious? If we see our friends go through it, does it give us courage to leave or strength to stay?
Me:38 H:39 MLC M:10 R:23 years D6 S3 Bomb: Easter, 2007 "Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day."
Dom, I am patient, I have not picked one or decided yet. Just remember she is only promising to read one chapter, may read more but that is all she is promising.
M 41 W 33 S8 S17 Bomb 3/11/07 S 3/28/07 New beginning? 8/31/07
. Well what I should have re-phrased was she agreed to read one chapter of one book of my choosing. When she told me this it was from me asking yesterday, she brought it up tonight, not I. So in some ways it has been on her mind since yesterday and not by me bringing it up again today. Damn I do need her in my life, she kept everything organized. 