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wow it's been a while since I"ve posted. Been having internet problems at home. Ick.

Still nothing on the H front. Still no word on the house leases. Still nothing about moving back together. So I'm not asking again. He got a new drivers license and put his house on it.

Vacation is almost here.

I'm not sure whether it's patience or just the fact that I don't have enough time to worry about it or do anything about it.


Too much else going on in my life.

I may. I've looked at a few schools and their requirements. Not sure I want to start right now. I will probably wait until next year.

H asked me to spend the night Wed night. I declined and said I still had house cleaning due to the ants to do. We had fun at a 4th party, then left in separate cars- he took the kids. I left without saying good-bye.

I think I'm going to re-up my lease for another year. I'll be on 9 month teaching schedule by then, out for the summer and able to move when the lease ends if I so choose- with or without H.

that's the bell. Later

Thanks.

This is the end of the second year of our split. Tomorrow starts the 3rd year.

Yup- I'd say I"m just about to the end of the line.

yup.

I just can't keep doing the weekend and holiday thing. It's getting old.

Oh- forgot a nice little tidbit from last week.

H came to the gym. We talked. He left.

I texted him and said- you know... you can kiss me in public.

His reply?

Ya, I'm just not feeling up to speed lately.

WTF?

And then nothing yesterday at the cookout. No touches, no rub on the back...

I think after I get back from vacation, I'm going to let him know it's time for me to move on.

Ya I know... and things were going so well.

I don't go on vacation with the kids until the 21st- so that definately covers the 48 hr rule.

I know things may change- although with H i've come not to expect them.

thanks!!

Hi Sox, looks like you are still a busy busy as per normal.

I was just wondering, what is your husband up to then and does he give a reason as to not wanting to move back in with you? Sorry. I can't recall.

don't know what he's up to. And no reason for not moving. Just doesn't do anything. He says all I have to do is ask, but when I ask I don't get an answer, when I ask again, I'm being a nag.

So I've learned to ask once and wait a bit, then do what I want.

I can only take waiting for so long. I can only ask so many times. Ya know?!