Sounds like both of our H's were jerks last night. So sorry how it is effecting your daughter. I wish somebody had a 2x4 for him so he could see what it is he is doing to her.
If it is Disneyland you all are going to, I wanna go!!! I live less than an hour away from Disneyland. Now if it is DisneyWorld, I will be there for a couple of days next month...the kids and I are taking a Disney Cruise and are going to stop by Disneyworld for a couple of days.
Originally Posted By: BamBam1970
Ok..know what I hate?
When I am posting and look at the recent posts and I have like the first 10. Makes me feel alone
Don't feel alone...you have so many friends here. I wish I had something of value to post to everyone like you do. You are here helping so many of us even when you are going through all of this yourself. You're awesome...You could never be alone here.
Hi sweets - being on a different time zone, I miss you posting sometimes !!! But I always check on you and LOVE to read your posts....we are going through SUCH similar stuff !!!! WOW !
I hope you're ok now and the angriness (sp) has subsided !!
I think that you are doing GREAT !
Today I'm having a good day ...and after thinking long about having taken off my wedding ring a few months back (I still miss it !!!) today I decided to start wearing the ring H gave me when we had our kids...it's a 3 rings in one, red gold, yellow gold and white gold...each with the name of a child engraved in it. I decided that to ME this ring meant more commitment now than ever, because I am taking care of the kids, yet the ring was given to me by H !!!Oh well, weird story, just wanted to share it with you !!
Wish I could see you all in Disneyland/world !!! If you all do go, PLEASE send me pics !!!!
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
Don't feel alone...you have so many friends here. I wish I had something of value to post to everyone like you do. You are here helping so many of us even when you are going through all of this yourself. You're awesome...You could never be alone here.
Thanks Upside. Your kind words are much appreciated!
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Hi sweets - being on a different time zone, I miss you posting sometimes !!! But I always check on you and LOVE to read your posts....we are going through SUCH similar stuff !!!! WOW !
Ok why can't it totally be stuff like having a million $$$$ or a devoted H who cherishes us or being around the world travelers that we have in common???????
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I hope you're ok now and the angriness (sp) has subsided !!
Uhhh, less anger, but not gone. I called him this AM to make plans for the kids. I was short and to the point, but kind. When I took them to him, he acted a little uncomfortable and I pretty much ingnored him. Told him to call me when kids were coming home. He said "they can stay w/me pretty much the whole day." I said "That's fine. Let me know." The end.
I feel like I'm at the end of my rope. Not just w/H, but a lot of things are going on for me right now. Family dynamics not so good(brothers and sisters)...never thought my family would be so yucky, but they are. A good friend lost her dad yesterday to lung cancer. We've had so many talks about our dads b/c mine had lung cancer and passed 1 1/2 yrs ago. I will go to the viewing tomorrow and see her and it is bringing back some pretty hard memories today. And...D8 is really struggling. So...pretty much I'm done today.
I think it's neat that you are wearing that ring. It symobolizes something different than your M, but still keeps connection which is good. I stopped wearing my wedding rings several months ago, but wore the mother's ring H gave me. Now I wear no rings. No reason, but just don't.
Thanks for checking in gals! You help keep me going
Me-BS 38 X-WS 36 Separated 11/15/2006 Filed for D 8/1/2007 Divorce Final 12/21/2007 S13, S13 (twins), D9 Married 13 Yrs Together 20 Yrs
I love Annie too! Carol Burnette is classic in it!
You know, I've been thinking so much these last few days. I know that standing isn't about them and all about us. I know standing doesn't mean they will come home. But, do you still have hope for a restored marriage? I'm just not sure anymore.
What do you think?
Me-BS 38 X-WS 36 Separated 11/15/2006 Filed for D 8/1/2007 Divorce Final 12/21/2007 S13, S13 (twins), D9 Married 13 Yrs Together 20 Yrs
Music by Elton John Lyrics by Bernie Taupin Available on the album Too Low For Zero
You could never know what it's like Your blood like winter freezes just like ice And there's a cold lonely light that shines from you You'll wind up like the wreck you hide behind that mask you use
And did you think this fool could never win Well look at me, I'm coming back again I got a taste of love in a simple way And if you need to know while I'm still standing you just fade away
Don't you know I'm still standing better than I ever did Looking like a true survivor, feeling like a little kid I'm still standing after all this time Picking up the pieces of my life without you on my mind
I'm still standing yeah yeah yeah I'm still standing yeah yeah yeah
Once I never could hope to win You starting down the road leaving me again The threats you made were meant to cut me down And if our love was just a circus you'd be a clown by now
Love Cinders xxx
"In the depths of my winter, I realized there is within me an invincible summer" Albert Camus
OK.....how do you do the multiple quoting's???? and bring in ones from a different post???
Shut up! Are you asking me???????? OMG, I feel like....smart!
Kay...here's what I know.
I copy something from a post that I want to reply to. If there is more in another post, I "reply" to that post that brings it at the bottom of my reply. Than I can copy and paste from that post as much as I want in my reply. When you paste it in the box, highlight and click on th ' " ' box above and it quotes it.
Still trying to figure out how to get them from multiple posts. Give me time...I will figure it out!
Me-BS 38 X-WS 36 Separated 11/15/2006 Filed for D 8/1/2007 Divorce Final 12/21/2007 S13, S13 (twins), D9 Married 13 Yrs Together 20 Yrs
Thanks Upside. Your kind words are much appreciated!
